To the misualdotcommers

November 26th, 2011 1:20 pm by TuaiSialA

Hmanni lawk atang khan hostel-ah ka awm a. Ka awmnaah chuan Saiha lam atanga lo kal, kei aia naupang nen hian pindan pakhatah kan awmdun a. A felin ka lakah a tha em em a, min zahder hle bawk a, a kawm pawh kan inkawm ngeih hle rëng a ni. Mahse, kar khat vel hnuah chuan a zia a dang ta deuh a.

Zing lam dar hnih/thum vela ka thanharhte hian hla ngaithla chungin tukverhah a lo dak vauh vauh thin a, zingah a tho hma thin bawk si a. A hmain chutiang chuan a awm ngai bawk si lo. Chutiang chuan zan eng emaw zah chu a awm tawh a, a harsatna ka zawhin mi chhang tha duh bawk si lo.

Zan khat chu ka muttui lai ka harh hlawl a, pawn tukverh bulah hian kekawrbul nen a lo thu a, earphone-in hla a ngaithla a; ka enthla ru reng a, chechang lek lovin a awm a, a chang leh a rawn thawchhuak leh hawk thin. A tawpah chuan ka va tho va, tihtakzetin a harsatna min hrilh turin ka ngên ta a. Hetiang hian min chhang ta a ni…

“Thianpa, nikum hmasa kumtir atangin depression ka nei tan a, a hahthlak khawp mai. Keimahin ka fight a, hneh ngei pawh ka tum a. Tichuan, a reh deuh vang vang a, tun hnaiah eng eng emaw vangin a rawn lang leh ta a, a zual ta em a nih hi.”

“Ngati nge mi hrilh vat loh aw.. Doctor i râwn vat lo nia.. Naktukah ka kalpui ang che aw..” ka ti a.

“Teuh lo mai! Doctor ka hmu duh lo. Doctor râwn ka duh lo hrim hrim. Engtin pawh mi tur lui la, ka râwn dawn chuang lo,” a ti ta bur mai.

A tihngaihna ka hre lo hle a. Kan ngawi deuh vang vang a.

“A nih leh depression i neih chhan ber eng nge aw? Eng nge i harsatna ber min hrilh la, theihtawpin ka tawngtaipui ang che. Tanpui theihna che ka neih chuan i thianpa hi ka awm reng a nia,” ka ti a.

Ani chuan mi han en vang vang a. A thaw hawk a. Heti hian mi chhang ta a.

“Ka depression intanna chu chhungkaw lampang vang a ni a, tuna a rawn lan lehna chhan chu hmangaihna (ngaihzawng) vang a ni. Kan khuaah ka nu leh pa chauh an awm a, ka nu chu nu hrisel lo leh bawksawp reng a ni a. Chutih laiin ka pa chu zu in reng mai leh ina awm ngai lo a ni. Ka nu chuan enkawltu a nei lo va, ka pa nen pawh an inhauh phah fo va. Ka pa chu inah pawh a riak mang ngai lo va, ka nu damlo chu a riahbosan a, a riahbo loh chang chuan zanrei tak takah a haw thin a. Chaw pawh inah a ei mang ngai lo. Ka nu chuan damlo chung chungin a eitur a insiam thin a. Ka zirna chhunzawm zel ka duh bawk nen. Ka rilru a hah em a ni.

“Tichuan, theihtawp ka chhuah a, ka nu leh pate tan ka tawngtai reng bawk a. Awmzia a awm bawk si lo. Tunah hmangaihna lamin min belhchhah leh ta a nih hi. Ka hmangaih chuan min ngaihsak tawk lo va, ka depression neih leh kan chhungkaw chanchin zawng zawng pawh ka hrilh vek tawh a. ‘Ka hmangaih che’ ti reng chungin puih ka ngaih lai berin ka tan a awm si lo. ‘I tan ka awm reng tih i hre lovem ni?’ a ti reng a, mahse, ka kawm duh lai berin thil dang min tihsan thin.

“Mizoram pawna hnathawka awm a ni a, zan dar 10-ah an bâng thin. Nidangah chuan an ban rualin min hrilh a, haw pahin mi rawn call a, kan inbe thin. Zing a thawh veleh a message ka hmu ziah a, hnathawka a chhuah dawn apiangin kan inbe ngei ngei thin. Mahse, tunah chuan a dang tawh.

Hman zan pawh khan a hnathawk bang chu khawhar takin ka lo nghak a, an bàn veleh message mi rawn thawn zuai a. ‘Movie kan en dawn a, dar 2-ah kan haw chauh ang. Lo mu rawh’ tih chu mi rawn thawn a. Mahse, amah kawm lo chuan ka mu thei bik si lo. Dar 2 rik hun chu ka nghak tang tang a. Chutah tak chuan ka depression nasa tak mai chu a lo langchhuak ta thin a ni. A lo haw hnuah mutchhuak tiin a muhil leh daih thin bawk si a. Ka then thei bawk si lo.

“Ka harsatna ka hrilh te hi hrilh nawn fo a ngai thin asin. He ka natna hi amah nen kan hneh thei tih ka hrechiang a, mahse, ka tan a rilru a inhawng mawlh si lo.. Ka hmangaih em em a, ka rilru zawng zawng ka pek avangin a thiltih ho të anga langah pawh ka rilru a lo na hle thin.

Mahse, chu chu ka hrilhfiah ngun tawh hle nain a hrethiam duh tlat lo va, a thinrimpui thin. Kei chu a chunga ka thinrim lai ber pawhin a tan ka tawngtai thin asin. Kei chuan tawngtaipuitu tur ka zawng ruai thin a ni. Tunah erawh chuan ‘Lalpa, min tanpui rawh’ ti bakin ka tawngtai thei tawh lo. Bible ka chhiar pawhin ka chhiar mumal thei tawh hek lo. Hmangaihtu leh ngaihsak tak taktu ka mamawh ber lai a ni asin..” a ti ngawih ngawih a.

Ka khawngaih kher mai. A mut duh loh miau avangin ka mutsan a, dar 4-a ka thanharh chuan ka bulah a lo mu reng tawh a. Mahse, hla a lo la ngaithla ngat ngat a. “Thianpa, ka tawngtaisak ang che aw..” ka ti a, a tan ka tawngtai a. Kan mu leh ta a.

A depression neih hi a sâng viau a nih ka ring. Khawlai kan chhuaha kawnga muangchanga kan kal pawhin chau tak ang hian a thaw leh hawk hawk thin a. Hma lam a melh ngar a, engmah a ngaihtuah thei lo. A chang leh hnathawk tura a chhuakte hi a lo haw leh thlawt a. ‘Engmah ka ti thei lo’ a ti rawn thlawt mai thin. A hmaa nuih a duh thin tehreng nen, a hlim hmel mai ni lo, a nui lai takngial pawh ka hmu ngai tawh lo.

Kei chuan tawngtaipui mai bak chu puih ngaihna ka hre lo. Ani hi misual.com-ah pawh hian a lo lut ve thin a, comment pawh a comment zeuh zeuh thin. He thu erawh chu keimah mimal thahnemngaihna avang liau liauva ka rawn post a ni. Misualdotcommer zingah depression nei in awm chuan a tangkai tel tho dawn bawka ka hriat avangin ka rawn inthlahrung lo.

Le, ka rawn post chhan ber ni ta chu — Ka thianpa hi damdawi han chawh teh u. Doctor râwn a duh lo tih hre bawk ila. A theih phei chuan a awlsam zawk nan a point të tëin rawn pe thei ula, a tangkaipui ka ring tlat a ni. Misualdotcommer zingah mithiam tak tak leh midangte tana inhawng reng in tam tih ka hria a, in tanpui theih ka ring e. Bible chang rawn dahin Pathian thu rawn dah teuh mah ula, awmzia a awm ka ring lo. Tin, ka thianpa hi a serious hle a, kei paw’n ka ngai serious a, he post hi a serious hle a ni tih min lo hriatsak theuh dawn nia.

126 Responses to “To the misualdotcommers”

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Soberboy Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:27 pm
First DET♥
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Soberboy Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:34 pm
Ummm!! ka chhiar chhuak ta!! Eng damdawi nge niang o 😀 ka la tawn ve loh thil ania ka va han hre lo em!!! SAS thar nei se a zia mahna le!! 🙂
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buh-duha Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:36 pm
Post tupa..midang tana i inpekna hi a ropui ka ti hle mai. Kan advice dawng lo mah la,tuna i tih anga i veia, i thiam ang anga i tih reng chuan a la danglam chiang khawpin ka ring. Advice chu rilru fim deuh zawkin aw niang. (Y)
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:39 pm
@Soberboy: Sas thar neih ringawt chu a ni lo tawp ang. A hmangaih chu a kalsan thei bik si lo va, ani’n a kalsan fithla thak bawk si lo va. Tin, a depression neihna bulpui ber chu sas a ni lo hrim hrim a, a tizualtu a ni zawk a. A enkawl dan kha a mamawh zawk chu a ni! A mamawh hi a ni tawp! 😀
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Ruata Pachuau Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:40 pm
Thurawn pek tur ka hre hauh lo mai!! Tinge doctor rawn a duh mai loh le? Post tupa in inhmin mai thei lo maw…….
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zoho Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:40 pm
A va serious ve aw….han tihpui hluai a zual belh ting theih chi a ni lehnghal.
1. Depression a nei tih a man a inhriat chuan a chhuahna chabi pawh a mah tho in a kawl tih lo hrilh teh aw.
2. A tobul a hla tawh a, chuti teh thut a dam leh chi pawh a nilo tih lo hrilh te bawk teh.
3. A hla ngaihthlak chuan a ti zual ting dawn tih lo hrilh bawk teh.( a depression chu a mah ngei in a tanpui lui tlat hrih ania)(Pathian hla a ngaihthlak ka ringlo mai mai a)
4. ruitheihthil a khawih em? A khawih loh chuan a la dam hma.
5. Medical experts lam pawh rawn chu a tha ka ti, gland & hormone lam thil pawh a ni a, Vitamin D(sunlight) a tlachham a nih chuan depression chu chiang sa bawk.
6. He group ah hian rawn add teh
https://www.facebook.com/groups/chawlhnatuikam/
7. Don’t preach, don’t dictate, don’t correct, accept him as he is……tih hi lo hre reng bawk teh.
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:44 pm
#3 @buh-duh: Ka lawm e. Ni e, a la danglam ngei ka ring. Advice tha tak chu a mamawh khawp mai.
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Soberboy Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:48 pm
#6 ZOHO sawi khi a tha ang Ku TS! ring mai rawh FB Group saw a hlawkthlak ania 🙂 nangpawh lo awm ve nghe2 teh 🙂
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Chhimphei val Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:48 pm
K khawgai khawp mai che,i tan rilru a in hawn thar leh theihnan nasa zawkin tawngtaipui la,i dawhtheihna zawng zawngin han hril tha leh la i tan a in hawng thar leh em em ang.
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aijal1 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:49 pm
zawhna pahnih lek
1. Hostelah hian Hnathawk tur a awm nge Lehkha zir turin ?
2. Kum engzat mi vel nge anih ?
A la naupang viau anih chuan Mithiam rawn tur a thlem thluk luih, amah hmin tum kha a va fuh hmasak ber hmel ve
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:49 pm
#6 @zoho: A va lawmawm ve aw.. Ni e, Lengzem hla hlir a ngaithla. Ruihtheihthil a ti lo. A nun erawh a beidawngin ka hria. Doctor râwn a duh bau lo ka tih kha. Tin, facebook-a ka awm tawh loh vangin i group sawiah ka add thei lo.
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:55 pm
#10 @aijal1: Hostel-ah a awm a. College zirlai a ni a, class a kal ngai tawh lo. Hnathawh a nei bawk. Kum 20 a pel awrh chauh. A kum a la naupang deuh naa, hnathawk thei tur khawpin a rilru a puitling tawh tlat.
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Jacka Pi Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 1:59 pm
A kal vanglai a nih chu, tihngaihna vak awm rihlo. Depression hi damdawia tihdam theihah ka ngailo bur, mahse psychological/mental condition a nih avangin rilru paukhauhna nen a control a,thuhnuai theih a ni tih chu living proof ka ni e. Mahse mihring kan inanglo a, control thei tur khan thenkhat chuan doctor an mamawh mai thei e. Shrink hoin damdawi an chawh thin hi chu ‘just another mind-altering substance under a respectable name’ tih hi ka dinna ngai reng a ni.
Tuaite, i thianpa chu fuih sauh sauh mai teh. Pathian thu lampang a sawt vaklo ang I ti bur bawk sia, depression te hi chu Pathian puihna lo chuan hneh har deuh mai asin
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aijal1 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:01 pm
@tuaiSiala: I lo tanpui tawh dan bak khi chu Roommate te tan chuan avang ang reng khawp in alang, amaherawh chu,kan ti leh pek ang a, a kum vel han en hian reasonable rual chu ani ve tawh a,Mithiam a mamawh ka la ti ber mai…
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Prof. Snake Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:03 pm
Tunlai thalai te zingah depression hi a tamin ka hria hmanlai aiin, a chhan tamtak a awm thei. Heng avang hian suicide pawh a tam phah in ka hria thalai zingah. Doctor rawn hi in tih hmuh a tha kati. Aia upa te titi pui tam emaw thiante nena sawi tam emaw a tha khawpmai. (Y)
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aijal1 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:08 pm
@ funny: Depression tih word kan hriat hma kha chuan hetiang hi an vang viau in ka lo hre ve thin, Depression tih awm zia kan hriat tam hnu hian kan vei tam ani thei mai lawng maw m?
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ReMpYâ„ Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:08 pm
Depression a nei tih a inhria a, hrehawm a ti bok a, tinge doctor a hmuh duh si loh le? Dam a duhlo ami? Nge a depression chu natna ah a ngailo zok? Natna ah a pawm miau loh a, medical treatment a duh miau loh chuan solve sak dan omchhun chu a depress chhan a chhungte leh a love affair problem chu solve sak a nih hmel a, tihtheih a om lo. Psychologist hmu se, engkim an thusoi zong2 poh a confidential vek tih hria se, physical treatment a ngailo tih hre bok se a hmu duh mahna.
Psychotherapy ringot a hlawhtlin don loh chuan anti-depressant medication te poh a trul ang.
A nihloh chuan thrian thra tak, a rilru la peng a hruai harh thrin tu tur a mamoh khop mai.
Rilru hah te hnem don hi chuan an dinhmun ang vel harsatna kan tawh ve te hi hrilh vek ila, phuahchop belh poh poilo, chung hrilh chung chuan hlim hmel takin om thung ila, anmahni chiah an ni biklo tih an inhriat hian a chhawk thei viau.
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Chhimphei val Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:19 pm
@funny i sawi dik khawp mai, depression nei kherlo pawh a tawn ang tawng ve tawh emaw a nilo pawhin dawt phuah chawp emaw tala a rilru an lak pensak chu a tha ngawt ang.
@tuaisiala…i thianpa chu doctor a rawn duhlo a ni pawhin a rilru thawven nan eng emaw tal i tih ngei a tul tih lo hria ang che..
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:23 pm
Eheu hei chuh, Psychological problem, depression, insomnia, insecure ,fatigue adt adt ang chi tamtak hi hriat a tha a mahse enge a nih tak tih hriat chian erawh a tha. Thil normal kan tih tamtak hi mihring mizia a zirin a danglam viau thei………….

Hetah hian i thianpa hian depression a neihna lai om point pakhat chiah a lang a chu2, khawlaia a kal lai a a thaw hawk2 thin tih deuh chiah khi ni mai in a lang, chu pawh a mut tlem vang a chau pawh a ni thei tho. Depression han tih a han lak serious na chhan vak tur om a om in a lang lo. A thil ton a khi thil pangngai a ni a rilru hah na chhan vak tur a awm lem lo, a nu dinhmun tih loh ah khi chuan. I mizia leh i thil tih dan atangin judge ngawt lo la, nangmah a normal a i hriat a kha a ma normal nen a in ang lo fe thei a ni tih hria la a tha ber, thil serious em2 a om loh khi.

Hriat a tan a tha ve mai2 chu, tunlai khawvel kalhmang tamtak a professionalism lifestyle hi kan nunphung 70% ah hian a apply lo tih hriat a tha, sorkar mi pawimawh tak2 chin, darkar bi a hun hmang chin ti teh ang, darkar chanve hun hman sual/pelh zeuh poi viau ang chin ah lo chuan tiang hi judgement a tan a hman chi a nilo tih hriat a tha.
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mr.Duhlova Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:25 pm
Psychology lam atanga deal chi a niang. I thian chu i hmangaih/khawngaih hle hmel a. Khawilo kalpuiah te sawm thut la, a nuam tih zawng leh tui tih zawng te hriat ruk tum la, zingah kaitho la infiam pui la, depression nei miahlo ang in kawm bawrh bawrh la, a duhloh zawng erawh chu ti lui lo la.

A ngaihtuahna divert sak theih dan a awm ngeiin ka ring. Ruih theih thil lamah erawh chuan luhpui loh hram a tha.
Hla ngaihthlak lam aiin, infiam (Taksa sawizawi) lam a i luhpui theih chuan, a zia awm thuaiin ka ring. (L) Best of luck
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:27 pm
In comment a tha hlawm khawp mai. A lo chhiar ve vekin ka ring a, a hlawkpui ngei ang le. Tin, a thei thei chuan in lo tawngtaipui theuh dawn nia.
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KimaJahau Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:29 pm
Thiante tana i inpekna hlu hle mai @TS
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ngaihdan tha a Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:34 pm
kei poh depression nei nasa tak ka nia. mase a chhokna tha ber nia ka hriat chu mahni a awm keuh2 leh music ngaihthlak te niin ka hria. mase a chhokna tak2 a awmlo…….
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lrpa Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:36 pm
psychiatrist hian engmah tak tak an hriat pawh ka ring lo e :-[
Mi tu emaw lo lungngai over se, tumah hrilh ngam loin psychiatrist hnenah hrilh se a dam deuh sawt mai thei, chutiang vel mai mai chu anih ka ring.
TS, i nau thil tawrh hi a nep em mai! ngaihtuah duh suh..
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ma-a Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:44 pm
1) Thian rintlak kawm tam rawh se!Mahni a awm a inngaihtuah vung2na hun nei tam lo se!
2)Exer la tha rawh se!
3)thil a eng zawng a ngaihtuah hram2 tum se!(a theih)
4)Ruih thei thil hrim2 lak a fihlim bawk se.
5)Duh ang leh tum ang a chhanna a hmu lo a nih pawhin tawngtai hram2 se.
6)Doctor rawn hreh lo se!.. tih ka rawn e.
(Mithiam ni awm fahranin kan rawn sawi mai2!doctor-te leh mithiam dang,misual a mi te ngei pawn advice tha zawk pe thei se)
leh lawks!
Mizo te hian rilru doctor han rawn te hi kan hmu mi ang lo viau zel a,thil nihphung a ni lem awm lo e!harsatna an nei ve a ni mai!Tarmit vuahte hi kan hmu mi ang lo chuang lo a,beng dar an han vuah ngat tawh hi chuan kan hmu mi ang lo viau zel,in zir a ngai e..hma sawn ila!
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ReMpYâ„ Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 2:58 pm
Hringnun hian min ben pawp2 a, min sawp deuh nawk2 chang hi a awm vek a nia, tu tan pawh.
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:07 pm
#19 @malsta27: Nitin zantin deuhthawa awmdun kan ni a, ka hrechiang alawm. Khi ka post khian a nihna zatve pawh a sawichhuah theih ka ring lo. Khitianga ka rawn ziah duah nachhan pawh advice dan tur hriat theih nan leh awlsam nana ka tih a nia. Amahin post duhin rawn ziak duh ngat sela chuan a sawifiah chiang zawk ang. A tana ka tih theih tawk ka rawn ti ve a nih hi. A rilru tawt hrehawm, mangang leh lungngai hmuh chuan awm mai mai a har asin! Amah rau rauva a danglamna leh a inthlakna lai chu keiman ka hmu chiang a, keimah atangin ka teh em em lo. Amah atang vekin ka teh.

Keimah ringawt pawhin a sawi lohva depression a nei a ni tih ka hriatna te:

1. IZana a mu tlem a, a muhil tlem bawk.

2. Chaw a ei tlem thin hle bawk. A hma nena khaikhin loh theih loh.

3. A mittui a hru fo va, zana ka muhil tawh emaw a tih hnuin chhuat lai vela a vei vei hi ka hmu ru fo.

4. A tawng tlem sawt hle. Amah aiin ka ngawihchawi thin asin le.

4. Hla a ngaithla nasa hle. Ina a awm chuan a ngaithla reng a, a hla ngaihthlak duhzawng atang pawhin a hriat theih.

5. A tawngtai hlei thei lo. Tawngtai tura ka tih pawhin lu a thing tlat tawh. Bible chhiar tumin a keu a, a khup leh hma thin khawp mai.

6. Sawi tawh ang khan a nui khât hle. Kan awm dun tirha kei ai maha mi hlim thei leh nui nasa a ni.

Post-a kan sawi ho baka amaha ka thil hmuh, pawn lam atanga ka lo hmuh dan an ni. A serious tih chu ka hrechiang a, ka sawichhuahsak thiam lo mai a ni. Englekhawle, hlawkpuina tham khawp chhanna chu a awm tawhin ka hria.
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upsilon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:09 pm
Mihring pangai nih hi chuan eng harsatna pawh hian min chim ve thei a. Tirhkoh Paula pawn ‘engkim in ta a ni’ a tih hial kha.
Keipoh hian zepthu cheng lohah i thianpa tawrh ang deuh hi ka tuar ve fo. Ka nau nena kan mithmuh ngeiah ka nu leh pate kut an inthlak chawrh2 ni lah a tam. Hostel ka awmlaia inchhungkhur ka ngaihtuah avanga zan rei tak thleng meng a,mittui a luan ni lah a tam. Ka pa chuan min boralsan nghe nghe tawh a ni.
Chutih rualin hmangaihna lamah pawh kan chhungkaw dinhmun min hriatsak vek leh min hrethiam em ema ka ngaih ve thin pawn damlailu min suntir a,fa 3 lai min neihsan ta. Chung avang chuan ka nat hma vang deuh te pawh a niang tlangval a pumpa mittui hi a luang fo a ni.
Kan tawrh theih chin chu a inang vek lo thei. Mahse, midang pawhina an tawrh theih chu ka thei ve tur a ni tia pachang taka hmalam pana harsatnate hi chu lulul taka nawr tlat tur, a tawpah zawng kan nawr thlu thei nge nge thin. Ni lo se, kei ngei pawh hian misualdotcom hi ka lo tleipui fo thei nang.
Harsatna vanga i mittui a tlak a ngaih pawn ,tla rawh se, tap rawh. Mittui siam chhan tak pawh a lawm. Mahse i harsatna chuan Lal Isua lal leh chhandamtua i pawmna rilru chu tih derthawntir suh ang che.
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ma-a Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:18 pm
TuaisialA mawhphurna a sang hle ti mai ang!Hairehai!Hmanni deuh khan phone kan dawng a,”Kum 17 mi ka nia,AIDS ka vei a,intihhlum mai ka duh” a rawn tia,in tihhlum a that loh dan leh amah ngei pawh midang tan a la hlu hle a ni tih kan hrilh fe hnu ah a pawm a niang chu,a in tihhlum thawm kan la hre lo a,a mah hmun leh hmun a hmuh a duh si lo a,buaithlak ve mai2!
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:21 pm
@Tuaisiala: Mizia te chu inthak chho ve reng a ni a lawm…………Tin, zan mut tlem, nuih tlem, mahni a awm melh2,chaw ei thei lo tih lamah phei chuan, hostel kan om ve lai Ka thiante ho phei chu hria la I buaipui hlom fe don a nih hi a. Zan a mut tlem chuan a chaw ei chu a tui lo ve pangai ang………..
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:34 pm
@Tuaite, i thianpa chu ka va khawngaih em!! Tihsak theih neih ka duh hle mai. A hnuaia ka ziah te hi a tangkaipui ang em aw :

1. Pathian a pawimawh ber. Pathianah innghat rawhse aw. Mental/psychological problem anih chuan medicine in a tidam theilo, a chawk thei, damna chu Pathian ah ani. Tawngtai tam rawh se.

2. Depression ka nei a ti ringawt a, Professional in diagnosed thlap nge aman ka nei a ti ve ringawt? Psychiatry world hi a zau ania, khawngaihin professional pan se, a dinhmun chiah huaisen takin hria se ka duh. Psychiatrist pan tura hmin kha i duty. Counselling a mamawh. Damna pe lo mahse nasa takin a chhawk ang.

3. A natdan a inhriat fiah hunah, huaisen na leh tumruhna nen a fight thei. A severe lai chuan engangpaw’n fight mahse a hneh ka ringlo. Chhawktu a mamawh hmasa. Lainat leh hrethiam takin lo enkawl teh.
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:45 pm
@tuaisiala: ka thian pakhat phei chu thla thum chhung mu tha mang lo, cho poh ei mang lo, pon a chhuah pon kongsir te a kal tlat tu mah be bok silovin a awm a,mi a haw vek leh nghal a, a hnu a kan inkawm leh chuan a thil hriat duh hre chhuak thei lo thinrim/mangang a lo ni lek sia……………. 🙂 🙂
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saint sammoo Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:46 pm
post hahthlak tak a ni. ka chhiar ringawt pawhin ka hah. Han chenpui ve phei ila chuan aw..nang pawh fimkhur teh i hmangaiha i ngaihven hi a tha e. Mahse, i post leh komen i chhan danah hian. I thian pa hian a ‘depres’ tawh che a nia.
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H.Vangchhia Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:47 pm
Ama thlungluah a damdawi mamawh a awm vek, a dawih der dur em anih chu mawle, a pawi hle mai. Rilru lam daktawr hmu sela a zia mai turah ka ngai, an hrilhfiah/enkawl thiam deuh ang.
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 3:48 pm
#30 @malsta27: Kan sawifiah thiam ka va châk ve! Hostel-a i thinate chu an chhungte thawhchhuah ringin an awm ang a, an rilru an tihah em em a, chaw an ei tlem a, an mut tlem bawk a. Khami nen khan a inang lo tih hriatpui hram la. Kan hostel fee hi cheng 2500 a ni a, mimal hnuaiah thawkin cheng 3000 a hlawh a. A zirna senso leh a khawsak velna turah a chhungte rintlak an awm lo tih a sawi. Chumi virvelah chuan harsatna lian tham tak a inphum ve bawk ang.
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matea_tmj Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:04 pm
a va han hahthlak.. a awmdan zawng zawng hi a sas hrilh teh
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:04 pm
Hriat chhun chhun tlem leh :
Mahni in awmtam suh se, amaha a inngaihtuah ngut ngutna hun kha tlem rawh se. A rilru ti zangkhai theitur kawng a zawn a ngai. Chhunlamah chuan a ziaawm ka ring a, mahse, zanlamah a zual chat dawn a, khatah khan a in control lohva a rilru anga a uaithlak hnup hnup chuan a zual zel dawn chiang ania.

Psychiatrist kha a tidamtu tur nilo vin a damna kawnga amah pui theitu tur a ni. Chuvangin pan hreh suh se. Tunlaiah harsatna ho te ah pawh mi in an pan zel tawh, thil zahthlak a nilo. Pathiana innghah ngam tawp kha a har dawn si a, a zual zel hma in tanpui a va tha em.

Hetiang lam hi ka vei zawng tak ania, misual ah pawh hian kimlo takin ka post ve tawh nghe nghe a. Depression a neih chuan ken tel a ngah lutuk – stomach upset, idigestion, insomnia, no appetite, a tam lutuk, mental symptom chu sawiloh physical symptoms thlengin. Anti-depressant te hi tha lo se an siam lovang. Side-effect chu a nei ang chu, eng damdawi paw’n side-effect chu an nei vek alawm.
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zualbonez Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:18 pm
hmmm…dysthymia/chrnoic depression a nei anih chu…

My advice: family lam chu mahni bakin deal ngaihna a awmlo..A tam thei ang ber a nu bulah awm rawh se

A bialnu chu theihnghilh rawh se, an social situation leh environment a inang tawh lo a chuan long distance relationship tih nung reng a har lutuk..doubt leh suspicion leh rilru natna bak a hmabak lo ..

Dysthymia nei tan chuan medication aiin talk therapy an prescribe zawk..i inpe bawka tuaisial lo kawm char char rawh…..strong lo chi anih phei chuan major depression ah a slide lut palh ange..ka belh leh duh chu ‘sad songs’ ngaiothla vak lo se Pathian hla ngaithla tam rawh se

eg.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otKn2dgP9YI

All in all Bible chhiar tam se, tawngtai tam bawk rawh se, chuan Psalm 23 byheart tir rawh.. (Y)
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lr hlonchhing Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:24 pm
Han sawi vak ngaihna leh damdawi tih lampang pawh ka va hre lo em! Mahse, an chhungkua leh a bialnu avanga depression a nih ngat phei chuan; tih theih a tlem khawp ang. A mah chauhva awm sim se, a hla ngaihthlak te bansan bawk se. Thiantha tak engkim a hrilh ngamnaah a rilru tawt lutuk in phawrh hmiah hmiah se a that ka van ring em!
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:33 pm
Zualbonez sawi ang khian a rilru nguai tizual tu mai mai, sad song lam ngaithla suh se. Ka sawi nawn leh ang, Psychiatrist ah kal tir teh, a depression kha mild/moderate/severe, eng berah nge a awm diagnose a ngai. A tul anih chuan Psychologist ah emaw therapy la se. Damna kim erawh Pathianah chauh a awm.

Anxiety Disorder kan tih ho te nen hian a in relate kual vek, enkawl loh chuan severe depression chuan psychotic stage a thleng thei. A luhlulna avang khan a dam ka ringlo, Professional help, a dawtah amah leh amah (Pathian puihna in) a intidam thei.

Ka ngaihtuah thin, tinge tiang lama kan mithiam te hian hetiang lam lehkhabu te hi an ziah loh le ka ti. Mizo te hi mental illness ah kan mikhual tawh lo. Mahse mipui nawlpui hian kan la hrethiam silo. Mahni natna accept duhlo a Medicine doctor a kal lui tlat, Psychiatry a refer, kal duh chuanglo a depression a lut thuk tulh tulh an tam. I tangtlang teh ang u, mi(sual) ho hi(thahnemngai em em)
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zualbonez Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:34 pm
Ka tan ni leh thla eng lo mahse Lalpa ka kumkhaw engtu ani , hmuhsit elrelna lo thleng mahse lalpa ka ropuina ani (Y)

Mihring kan nih chuan hreawm kan hmachhawn vek – a thenin kan deal thiam deuha a thenin kan thiamlo deuh..engpawh ni se Pathian kuta kan inhlan hian kan mamawh hunah kut kai chungin min kalpui thin (Y)
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lr hlonchhing Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:41 pm
Ts, rilru tha, ngaihtuahna seng thiam tak, mi paukhauh, mi pangngai aia sang i ni a. I thianpa rilru i hnehtheih ka van ring em! Ka thusawi i hrethiamin ka ring. Mi huaisen tak i ni, an rawn che ang khian psychiatrist ah kal tura; i hruai theih ka ring khawp mai che. (Y)
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:43 pm
@TS: ti daih teh ang, engtin nge awm se i duh a i beisei, beisei i nei a nih si loh chuan……..I thahnem ngaihna hi a that rualin,i victimize a ni daih tih hi i hriat a tha, inthiar fihlim san daih roh a duh a, a pan che a nih loh chuan…………a tha ber ang a chhan chu i nunphung leh a nunphung a in an loh hmel em mai. A hahdamna ber kha i duhdan ang in siam tum lo la……….
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:44 pm
Ngawi teh Ts, nangmah vangin Inrinni chawhnu kan hmang tha viau in ka hre ta mai. I thianpa chu lo hrilh teh, Mi(sual).com ah hian rawn active ve se, a rilru ding ngut ngut tur te pawh a ziaawm ang.

Tlangval a ni lawm ni, enge nula pakhat vang mai mai a chutia a awm..shaala. Hmeichhia an tam. Chhungkaw buaina pawh, ani aia chhungkaw buai he khawvelah hian an tam. Let him come out from his misery, we’re ready to help him.

I thianpa chauh nilo, he site a lut thin hetiang lam problem nei te tan pawh i post hi a hlu e (Y)
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XaiA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:47 pm
Daktor chu hmu hram se…Pathian hnen a tawmgtai pui bakah a mah chauh a awm tam tir loh te a tha ang.A mah tihlim turin i talent i hman a tul a nih chu.I hnenah Pathianin a rawn tir a ni mahna.
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zualbonez Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:51 pm
Depression hi chu a hreawm e mai..ka hmelma lian ber chunga thleng tur pawn ka duh lo…

#45 “A mah tihlim turin i talent i hman a tul a nih chu”..hihihi :Y: :Y: :Y:
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H.Vangchhia Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 4:56 pm
#46 😛 talent chu lo hmang sela tiraw 😉
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saint sammoo Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:03 pm
a game ah a hruai lut palh an che o.
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zualbonez Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:04 pm
OT: thil surf na lamah ka hming MIT webpage 1 ah kan hmuh chu a 😛 😛 :insawitheilawkskakhivurvurmai:
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:05 pm
Eng talent mah ka nei love a!

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H.Vangchhia Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:07 pm
TS, zuala khian a la kawi mai mai anih khi aw 🙂
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:08 pm
#48 Teuh lo mai, kei te chu!
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:10 pm
Ts, nangmah hlir kan address loh che chuan, i thianpa chu a online ang chu maw. Tupawh hian nun nguai lai leh nun hrehawm tih chang kan nei fo. Mahse, nunphung leh ngaihtuahna buai khawp anih chuan Professional help a ngai tih hi ka ngaidan nghet tlat ani.

Pathian hnenah intulut teh se, a theih anga tam tawngtai se. He hla chang hi a tha hi ka tia, vawitam ka quote tawh :

“Lalpa nang lo tunge ka neih,
Ka mangan leh ritphurh ka thlenna;
Ka lawmna leh hlimna te nen
Ka thinlung ril hrefai vektu

Nang in min hmangaih
Nangin min enkawl thin
Ka piantirh ata tunthlengin
Ka nun hnarkaitu i ni”

Hetiang taka min hmangaihtu Pathian kan nei a, kan lo mangang thin anih pawhin A ngawi reng lovang tih hi ring tlat rawhse.
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zualbonez Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:11 pm
HV ..ka la kawilo…a talent kan sawi chu hetiang ang deuh chi hi-kan hriat vek kha (Y) (C) (L)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGqjehPxEeg
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Prof. Snake Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:16 pm
off topic lawks: vawiin test match chu ava tight em em ve le, an rawn update muang si, west indies lamin delay nan an ball muang hle aniang, a taka en lo tan chuan a nghahhlelh awm duh thei ngei. A tawpa tawpah an in draw thei hram. 🙁
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ultimate Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:24 pm
No 1 ah Pathian, No 2 ah Dr Hrekima a mamawh a ni e.
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:28 pm
@zualbonez#54 Leh…………..An soisa nasa lutuk a ka khongaih teh mai nia……….. 😀 😀 Tuaisiala hi a thianpa ah a buai a nih hi, a thianpa hi a mah ah hian a buai a ngem aw tih theih a ni tawh lolz.
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filliz Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:31 pm
Hetiang hian ka awm tawh a, a hrehawm khawp mai. Sawifiah vak thiam chi pawh a ni lo, a hrehawm dan chu. Mahni a awm tam loh a tha. Len chhuah tam leh thiante bula awm tam nen. Mahni a awm a, in ngaihtuah vak vak loh a tha ka ti..
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Jacka Pi Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:39 pm
Depression hi taksaa natna a ni lo, mahse a effect erawh taksa ah a langchhuak.
TS, midangin an sawi tawh tho a,keipawn ka sawi nual tawh a, kan belh leh mai mai ang e.
(1)Depression fight tur chuan physically fit a pawimawh.Infiamna dang tih theih loh pawn walk vak mai tur.
(2)Rilru doctor ho hi keipoh ka ring lutuk lemlo,mahse severe case ah chuan professional an nia,mahni leh mahni intanpui theih dan kawng chu an kawqh hmuh ve theih chu ka ring
(3) Anti-depressants ka ngaihdan chu #13 ah ka sawi tawh.
(4) Dependency hi! I thianpa pawh khian a sas nen chuan a condi hneh theiah a in ngai a, mahse a sas chu a chuti lutuk si lo! Midang leh thildanga in nghaha beisei ang a nih leh si loh hian a ti zual duh. Chuvangin mahni a pawimawh ber
(5) Unshakeable trust in God even when He doesn’t seem to hear our cries and anguish. I doubted Him, I questioned Him, I even riled against Him…trust me, our God can take it all and eventually make it better
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zualbonez Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 5:41 pm
malsta..hahaha

#59 jacka pi..100% agree especially last point (Y) (B)
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 6:01 pm
@Jacka Pi (Y)

Ts, i thiante hian i thianpa tan tihtheih kan nei tamlo khawp mai. Kan lo tawngtaipui reng ang tih hria sela, Jacka pi sawi ang khian ani pawhin Pathian au rawhse. Duh leh hau se, duh leh thinrim khum rawhse, A tawngtaina a thlawn lovang.

A dinhmun i sawi dan en khian ‘severe depression’ a nih hmel tlat, chuvangin Professional pan tur a thlemthluk kha i mawhphurhna liau liau a ni e.
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Argus_Eyed Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 6:18 pm
@Ts, puih theihna ka nei lo hle mai, How to Win Over Depression – Tim LaHaye ka nei a, a chhiar duh dawn phawt chuan ka lo pe ang. Lehkhabu tha tak a ni, a hlawkpui ngei ka ring.
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Jacka Pi Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 6:22 pm
Tuaite, i thianpa I puih theih dn tur ber nia ka hriat 1 chu doctor panpui tum hram teh. Anih loh vek pawn helpline eng engemaw te chu a awm ve thin kha,khangah te khan contact tir la,professional help mamawh a ang ber.
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bk Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 7:11 pm
Pawi hle mai, nia, depression a nih chuan professonal counsellor pan thei se, han inbunruak ve hrim2 te hi a tangkai a, damdawi hmanga enkawl dante pawh a awm ang.

Mihring hian harsatna kan hmachhawn theih dan hi a inang vek lova, hetiang dinhmuna awmte pawh hi mite pawh an ni ve tho tia ngaihnep sak chi a ni lova, an dinhmun hriatthiam pui tak chunga kawng dik an hmuh theihna tura tanpui a tul hle ang…
Te ka’n ti ve deuh duah a…
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 7:36 pm
Sheldon + Jacka Pi + Zualbonez + bk + commenter zawng zawng te, in comment a hluin a ropui ka ti. Ka thianpa mai ni lovin, a chhiartu dang tam takin an hlawkpuia an tangkaipui ngei ka beisei tlat a ni.
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 7:53 pm
Mi depressed ah an chhuah ngot ngai lo aw………… 😀 😀
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lrpa Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:15 pm
Engemaw depress in tih ve ziah hi, mihring hi hlim reng tur kan ni lo a. psychiatry in depression a define na ni a ka rin chu a chhan mumal awmlo a depress ve ringawt anih ka ring!
ngaihzawng then a depress te chu spychiatric problem pawh ni dawn em ni?
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:28 pm
@lrpa, Nia, Ngaihzawng then vanga depress chu psytriatic problem a ni lo tawp ang. A ziahdan khian nikum atanga depression nei, a ngaihzawng nena buai vanga a depression rawn nasa leh ta ang in a ziak a. Khi nunphung mumal mang lo khawpin a awm khi.

A depression kha a lo manage/control thei tawh a, rilru natna engemaw an neih khan a rawn trigger leh ni hmiang ka ti. Misual ah hian helam line te hi kan awm lo mawn le aw…
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Asteric™ Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:31 pm
mmmm….tunlaia ka ngaihtuahnaa awm mek a ni e, “Tunlai chhuan thar te hnena Setana hmanrua depression” tih hi.

Kum 10 liam ta kha chuan ual au leh lang sar takin setanan á¹hailai nun a suat a, tun generation ah hi chuan depression hmangin a suat ve thung a ni. Mahni inkhawngaih veng veng na avanga lo awm a ni ka ti lo theilo. I á¹hianpa chauh hian a tuar lova, khawvela mihring sang tel teh meuhin depression hi kan tuar a ni.

Kei ngei pawh in nun awmzia hrelo in, thiltih engmah tuilo rawih leh thih duhna hial ka pu tawh. Tin, Bible chang ka hriat te hlei hlei hian min ti thinur zual emaw tih tur a ni. Pathian a awm rinlohna thu ziak hi kan ei ber bawka kan beng a verh duh hle. Nunin awmzia a neih kan hrelova, chutih rualin thih in awmzia a neih pawh kan ring chuang lo. Dr pakhat biak ka tum zuai zuaia, a no. ka neia mahse ka be duh chuanglo. Kan rilru hrethiam mi kan mamawha chutih rualin an lak kian theih chuanloh chuan sawi sawi pawh á¹ulin kan hre lo á¹hin. Mifel deuh in chengvawng deuh misual te rilru pawh lo hi kan haw tawp bawk.

Engpawh nise depression hi Setana hmanrua, mahni inkhawngaihna nei tura kan thluak a sûkna zel a ni. Rilru hah avangin hmasawnna a thlen chuang lova, kan taksa in a tuara kan thlah duh chuang miahlo. “Tunge lungkham avaga mahni dunglam tawngkhata ti sang chuang thei” ti a Biblea inziak hi a dik lutuk, depression nei te tluka lungkham ngah an awm lovang, mahse pakhatmahin hmasawnna a thlen lo.

Hei hi ka chah ve mai mai duh: Pathianin a hre reng, a ngawihsan hrih a ni. Mahse a veng reng a, a rilru in engmah nilova a inhriat takzeta a tuar zawng zawng ah pawh mahni inkhawngaih aia lawm taka a accept hun a nghak a ni. Pathianin a hrehawmna a laksak lovang, hneh turin a duh, Setana hmanrua a ni a pehel pui lova hneh turin a duh a ni. A rukin Pathianin a “watch” reng 😉
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CFL Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:33 pm
Doctor rawn duh bawk si loh chuan a va buaithlak deuh ve awwwwww. (U)
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CFL Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:35 pm
# 69, Asteric.. (Y)
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zoho Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:44 pm
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001941/
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:47 pm
@Lrpa: Perfectionist ho lifestyle leh health consciuosness tihsan vak a nunphung pangngai in a phak siloh avanga awm mai2 a nih duh hmel……… 😀 😀 . NOI
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zoho Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:48 pm
Sunlight hmuh tlem lutuk in depression a awm thei a(Vitamin D tlakchham), solar flare vang in depression a awm thei bawk a, kan khawvel hi chu a tar tawh lam pang chu a ni e.
http://www.examiner.com/pop-culture-in-hartford/solar-flare-radiation-geomagnetic-storms-behavior-moods-and-suicide-rates
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zoho Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:53 pm
@malsta27 – I thianpa thla 3 chhung a awmdan a diklo a, thil engemaw a hriatchhuah zawhloh vang lek a lo ni a, depression a lo ni miahlo a, chu chu i awih a maw?
Khaih… fimkhur rawh, i bialnu in a lo hre reu reu ang a, a break che ang a, thla 3 hnu ah “Thil 1 ka theihnghilh vang alawm” a ti ang a, i tlu leh hlauh dah ang e…. hehehe…. 😀 (:fth:)
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Thangchhuahpa Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 8:57 pm
i hna tur nita chu .. to help people to help him self , an tih ang deuh hi anih tak hmel?? abak chu ka hre ve vak lo. Hei kan tawngtai dawn a, kalo tawngtai pui ang che u…
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:01 pm
@Zoho: Ni e mawle, a a emaw an ti hman vek leh nghal 😀 😀 . Na deuh2 in kan in fiam a hlauhthawn chu ka hlauthawng ve hman deuh mahse a awm dan depressed a nilo, rilru hi inferiority complex te leh superiority in siam dan te poh hi a lo danglam khop.
Depressed hi chu a awm lo chu a ni lova a tam zawk hi chu sensitive lutuk vang te leh rilru no lutuk vang te poh in a awm ve thei bok a lom.

Chutiang vang mai2 a in then duh te chu neihloh mai tur lom 😀 😀 .Ti ve ngot teh ang ………………
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:10 pm
kan Edit theihloh chu a; ka soi ang te lek2 khi chu science la thiam tak2 ho chhungkaw harsa ve tak2 (ti ve leh chhawng i la)ah hian an tam mai………..misual ah poh hian an om nual ang ka ring 😀 😀 . An thiam poh in thiam tak an ni…………
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aduhi Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:10 pm
comments dang ka chhiar lemlo a. Mahse tha ve mai mai a ka rin chu mahni in awm tam lo se, thian kawm se, inkhawm se. Thil pakhat chauh ngaihtuah ngut ngut lo in interests dang a neih chuan ti tel se, eg inkhelh te. Chuan in an chhungkaw buaina leh a bialnu chungchang kha amah vang a ni lo tih inhria se, amah a in blame tur a ni lo, it’s not his fault.
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:11 pm
@malsta: I comment chuh! ‘Thi tur tho tho pian loh tawp tur alawm’ tihna tlukah ka ngai. Hma lam hun tur kan hre lo tlang a ni lo’m ni le..
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aduhi Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:12 pm
i thianpa chu a misual ve thin chuan MI leh hunah hruai ve mai rawh, tihlim tak tak tu a hmu teuh ang NOI
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Asteric™ Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:17 pm
Pathian thuawih leh hria ni a kan hriat ten kan harsatna an hriatthiam loh hian Pathian kan rinlhlelhna a ti zual ting bawk.
Mahni intihlum te ah hian mawh nasa takin kan phur… Bible chuan “Nangmah i in hmangaih angin i veng te hmangaih rawh” atih laia enge ka veng te harsatna pawh ka hriatthiam loh chuan ka in enfiah hle a ngai a ni mai. Mi hausa pa in “Tute nge ka veng te chu” ti a Isua a zawh khan engtinnge a chhan, heng á¹anpui ngai te á¹anpui leh an retheih laia kan mamawh te hi a ni a sawi ber kha ni. 🙂
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:17 pm
@tuaisiala: Thi tur tho2 tih lam a nilo I judgement lak dan a khi a nep/no ka ti mai a ni e……..
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:23 pm
Zualbonez #46 “Depression hi chu a hreawm e mai..ka hmelma lian ber chunga thleng tur pawn ka duh lo…”

Ta tang pawh khian depression neih hrehawm dantur chu a hriat mai awm e.

Rilru lam natna hi chu a tuar ve tu tan lo chuan hriatthiama har bawk aniang e, mi thenkhat chuan ‘a rilru mai mai alawm’ te an intihsak laiin a tuartu tan chuan thil hrehawm tawpkhawk a ni si. A sawifiah dan tawifel ber : IT’S A LIVING HELL.
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:27 pm
Malsta hian a hrethiam ve miah lo a nih hi! NOI
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:32 pm
Tuaisial depression hi i hrethiam lo zok a niang ka ring, depressed treat hian min lo treat vak toh a,ka hrilh hrep don che mon le………. 😛 . William james a fear te ho te kha han chhiar ve tlauh2 phot teh. I harh ve mai ang.
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PimPom Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:35 pm
#6
zoho: I FB link dah ah hkhian ka lut thei miahlo mai!! Ka lo Joint ve duh a sin mawle.

Topic hi chu advice tur ka hre tamlo khawp mai. ka chhiar laia ka rilrua awmte Comment lamah khian an lo advice vek tawh bawk nen.
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:39 pm
@Malsta: Nakinah inhmuh hun in neih tak leh ka thianpa nen in inkawm dawn nia. A chiang ber ang. A tak hmu pha si lo, amah hmu bawk si lovin engtin nge a ni lo tih i hriat theih le? Ka post khian a nihna zawng zawng a hrilchhuah vek emaw i rin le.. Ka lo comment tawh ang khan, a nihna zatve pawh a sawichhuak zo lovang.

Tlang takin sawi mai ila. I comment ang kha a mamawh a ni lo, khatiang kha misual.com-ah ka rawn zawnpui lo. Fuihna leh thurawn a mamawh a, ka rawn post a ni. A hlawhtling thawkhat viauin ka hria a, a lawmawm khawp mai.
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Chhimphei val Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:40 pm
Comment tha tak tak a awm laia ho deuh/ringhlelh/nilo ang titute khi in hriat ve mai mai atan eng natna pawh hi kan chunga thleng vek thei tih in hria ila,kan Pathian thu in ‘i chunga an tih i duh angin midang chunga tih ve rawh’ti hi in lo hrenawn leh mai mai dawn nia
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:40 pm
@Malsta: Nakinah inhmuh hun in neih tak leh ka thianpa nen in inkawm dawn nia. A chiang ber ang. A tak hmu pha si lo, amah hmu bawk si lovin engtin nge a ni lo tih i hriat theih le? Ka post khian a nihna zawng zawng a hrilchhuah vek emaw i rin le.. Ka lo comment tawh ang khan, a nihna zatve pawh a sawichhuak zo lovang.

Tlang takin sawi mai ila. I comment ang kha a mamawh a ni lo, khatiang kha misual.com-ah ka rawn zawnpui lo. Fuihna leh thurawn a mamawh a, ka rawn post a ni. A hlawhtling thawkhat viauin ka hria a, a lawmawm khawp mai.
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:44 pm
@tuaisiala: I Thianpa chu i hre lo a nih chu………..ti hian i ron ti lar vak tih i hria em? A tu a pawh lo nise,a tak emaw tak lo emaw, i bula om a chu mi zawng2 in an en dan a dang vek tawh ang. Chu chuan i thianpa i pui emaw i intih lai khan i pui hauh lo tih lo hre mai2 teh. A lo depressed tak2 a nih phei chuan i ti buai zawk ang ka hrilh ang che…………
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:52 pm
Ka thianpa ka pui a nih loh pawhin midang chu he post comment hian puih a nei mahna. Ka pui a nih loh pawhin thahnemngaihna aw a ni hrim hrim a, rilru chhia leh dik lo pu-a post ka ni chuang lo bawk a, a pawi lem lo. Tanpui ngaite tanpui an ngaih laia hetiang zawng thu lo lak vak hi a fuh chiah lo. A subject chu zawhna a ni a, tanpui dilna a ni bawk. Chu chu i hriat ve tho kha.
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:55 pm
Psychological problem Hi confidential a ni tih te lo hre ve toh teh………….THIL TAMTAK HI A NAWLPUIA TIH THEIH CHI LEH CHI LOH HI A AWM VE BAWK CHU2 THLIAR RAWH MI IN AN HMEHBEL VE ANG TIH TE HI LO HRE VE BAWK LA……COMMISERATE EMAW POPULARIZE CHI LEH CHI LOH A AWM VE BAWK E…………
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:56 pm
Ts, i thianpa chu khawia mi pawh nise, eng mi pawh ni rawh se, kan lo tawngtai pui e. Nangmah chuan a natna kha i hriatthiampui phak kher lovang. A zir a zir te ngei pawh hian a tuartu ai in an hrelo.

Tin, mental illness, depression/anxiety disorder/panic attact, adt. kan ramah hian a mikhual tawhlo. Hetiang nei nih hi thil zahthlak pawh ani lo.
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tarmita Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:59 pm
Rilru daktawr rawn hi hreh loh tur asin mawle. Kei pawh ka lo chau zawr ve tawh hle thin a. Psychiatrist ka rawn hnuah ka tha chhuak ve leh mai. A hrim hrimin rilru daktawrte hi US President te meuh pawhin an rawn mai ni lovin an zinnaah an hruai zel thin a. Tlawmngaih chi a lo ni reng reng hlei nem mawle. TS, i thianpa pawh chuan lo rawn ve ngei se ka va ti em! Keimah angin a dam tha ve leh mai tur…
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PimPom Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 9:59 pm
A thianpa tana thahnem angaihna hi a ropui khawp a lawm le. @malsta27 i sawisel dawn anih pawhin tawngkam mawi hawih deuhte chu a awm ve reng a lawm mawle.
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 10:05 pm
@pimpom:#96: a hriathiam dan tur tawk in kan sawi kan sawi a, a la hrethiam thei lo tin lom le………..
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zoho Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 10:05 pm
pimpom@87 – secret group a nia, in hmu theilo aniang, tah hian rawng pm mai la
https://www.facebook.com/larrickRalte
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 10:17 pm
Malsta: Inhrilhfiah a hun rih lo. Inpuihna hun a ni zawk. Mifing i nih kha, khatiang zawng khan comment tawh lo teh.
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zoho Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 10:18 pm
@malsta – depression a nih chuan a chhan a pawimawh lo, a condition a pawimawh zawk. Mi tu emaw, an thenawmnu nuiri avang ringawt a depression a nei a nih pawh in a tan chuan a genuine tho tho.
Mi problem reng reng hi a problem solve tum tur a ni lo a,a problem atanga teh tur pawh a ni lo a, a mihring a zawk hi a centre tur chu a ni zawk. Zawhte ki nei hlauh avanga buai leh ramhuai pai avanga buai ah hian a buaina hi kan lo teh tur a ni lo a, a mihring a pawh kan lo judge tur pawh a ni lo a, miin tanpui a ngaih chuan tanpui theih chuan tanpui tur, theihloh chuan tanpui loh- simple as that. 😀
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littlerascal Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 10:26 pm
Phek thar hawng ang
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 10:46 pm
Tuaisiala: man is a social being tih hi a zir a zir, nilovin a tak a awm ngei kan nunpui reng a ni a,I post toh tho2 thova, mi pakhat chanchin i soi hian society engtik lai pawn a hne/si reng tih hriat a tha tun hnu a i thil post leh tur ah poh hre roh chu2. I tihlar emaw i tih mualpho emaw kha chu a topic in a hril thei…………..

Thil ho te anga i ngaih kha midang tan a nilo thei bok a,tin media a chak toh a internet kan hmang nasa toh bok a, ‘journalist should never become a part of the story he is covering’ an tih ang deuh idealogy hi chu neih a hun toh lo…….chuvang chuan pui emaw kan in tih lai hian kan pui lo thei bok tih hriat a tha e in awk hlum kan tam toh em hi……..
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hmingtea Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 10:54 pm
A va khawngaihthlak tak ve le aw tak tak a ni ngut ang em i thil post hi te ka ti ve mai mai hahahahnoi
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 10:57 pm
Chutiang zawnga lo ngaih tlat tur em ni dawn le.. Nia, post leh dawnah chuan ka hre tawh ang e. Nang pawh lo hre tawh la, hetianga kan rawn post mualpho ta rau rau a nih chuan khatiang hlira comment khan kawngro a su lo va, a nih tur a ni vek tawh. Chuvang chuan thurawn leh fuihna angrengte i neih chuan chu chu thawh mai a finthlak. ‘I thianpa i timualpho’ tih ringawta comment khan awmzia a nei tawh lo. A mualpho tak tak a nih chuan keimah bawk hian ka hre hmasa ang. Khawlaia ka chhuahpuia an lo melh hrek hrek chuan keiman ka hre mai ang. Mahse, a thiante emaw, a chhungte emaw, a hmelhriatte’n emaw, ‘Depression a nei a..’ ti-a an hmuhsit zui ka ring lo. Hetiang thu post hi mualphona tur ni em em paw’n ka hre lo. A lo mualpho ta takzet a nih leh keiman mawh ka phur ngam alawm, kha kha chu ka kutah dah rawh.
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Soberboy Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 11:01 pm
a van thui tawh ve
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PKfanai Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 11:05 pm
Hetiang vang hi a lawm, Enghelh leh rilru hahna nei miah lo; Engthawl tak mai a ‘NUIH’ hlut zia hi ka sawi fo thin ni. Broken Family + Broken Love Life chu, ava tawrhhlelh awm dawn tak em! “Midang zawng mai rawh” han tih ngawt pawh hi, a practicable lutuk lem thin lo. Chuti ngawt a awlsamin Duhber dang neih leh mai hi a theih hauh lo. A damdawi tha ber chu, Rilru siam fel a, Pathiana tluk luh a ni a, Chuti chung pawh chuan, harsatna kha a kiang nghal duak chuang kher lo. Amaherawhchu, mahni tan a thalo zel tur lam pana kal zelna kawngah min veng thei a, A hun takah chuan, “Ka lo tifuh mang e” tih hun alo thleng mai thin a ni.
Mssionary Nula leh Tlangval meuhte pawh hi, an vuai ve hnup thei tho ania aw. Pastor pakhat pawhin a harsatna a rawn Post tawh kha.
An chhungkua leh a bialnu lama tuan a, siamfel theih mai ni sela chuan, a awlsam mai tur anih laiin, chuiang chu a theih mai bik thin lo hi a buaithlakna lai tak ni thin bawk.
Tawrh hram hram a, Rilru la thei tak thil dang a, Rilru pek san tlat chuan, HUN hian a tidam ve thei khawp bawk.
“Nangni Thawkrim leh Phurrit phur zawng zawngte u,Ka hnenah lo kal ula, keiman ka chawlhtir ang che U” tiin Lal Isuan min sawm kha; Pan nachang i hria ang u.
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malsta27 Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 11:20 pm
@Tuaisiala: Ngaih a ngaih loh tur in i post miau si a lom le. A mualpho ti in kan comment reng2 hleinem, a normal zia chungchang hlir a ni kan soi, a mah ang kaltlang khi an tam mai mi pangngai, lehkha thiam sang tak2/ mi fel tak2/mi zahawm tak2 ah poh. Thil i hre chiang lova nih chuan ‘a ni e’ ti in sawi pawp thin suh psychology chungchangah phei chuan a zau nasa in behaviour leh character ringot poh hi zir sen loh a awm a nia.

Thil ziak mi i ni a, fiction hi engvanga ideal,reality nen a in hne mang lova ziak thin nge an nih tih te,personalize an tih dan te hi lo zir chiang ve chhin teh, ka thiam ve vak lova ka tui ve tho si a ka hrechiang chak ve tho a nia . Bio-graphy/news te hi chu thildang daih a ni in ka hria.
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littlerascal Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 11:23 pm
Comment ka khar e haha
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sheldon Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 11:26 pm
@Pu Pk, i mail check teh aw.

@littlerascal, rawn comment ve leh duh ila i hawng leh thei em..haha
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PKfanai Says:
November 26th, 2011 at 11:46 pm
@Sheldon, ka rawn chhan nghal kha aw.
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 12:17 am
@malsta: Ka sawi peih tawh lo. He post hi ka ngai serious ka tih tawh kha, thu danga luh phei chu ka peih lo lehzual. Depression hi theory mai ni lova practical-a i hriat hunah chuan, he post-a ka thianpa thil tawn hi i hrethiam ve mai ang. A reng reng thu-ah, ‘i thianpa hi a normal a, depression a ni lo’ tih sawi thei turin depression i lo vei ve tawh reng reng em ni? I chhanna ka nghak e.
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feeder Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 12:34 am
Depression hi hman atang ka lo fight ve toh, a chhan engpawh nise la tawng ve lo te tan tihdan tur lo suggest ve ngot kha a fel ber lovng, a remedy a vang em, keipawh tunthleng hian ka la fight mek tho, thiante nena zin veivah te leh ka rilru thildanga hmanna a awm hian min chhawk ve, mahse mahni chauha a bik takin zan han hman hian a lokal leh thin. Midang hnenah ka sawi ngai lo, tun hi ka voikhat soi na ala ni. A ngaihna ka hre bik thlawt lo
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TuaiSialA Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 1:17 am
@feeder: Comment-ho khi chhiar la, i hlawkpui ka va ring em! I chhiar let peih chuan chhiar vek la, a chhawk theih che ka ring khawp mai.
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K^_~lhawk Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 1:45 am
Tuaite, uluk takin kawmen zawng2 nen, thumal khat pawh hmaih lovin ka chhiar chhuak vek a, i thianpa hi nangmah i ni tih ka hria (?)

Chhungkaw boruak avangin, lungngaiin indawm kûn mah ta che…

Hmeichhe 1 avangin thinlung keh-sawmin tap mah ta che…

Bukna dik lo kan hman hian mahni inkhawngaihna, mite zingah tling lo leh tlawm bik, thiante leh bialnute lakah ngei pawh tê chem2 bik nia inhriatna, chhungkua a zawnga retheihthlak ber leh vanduai ber nia inhriatna a awm thin. Mahse, mi inchhiarzau leh hawiharh i ni a, hringnuna i inbuk thinna patla kha a rang a rangin thlak hmiah tum rawh! Tum rawh! Kei pawhin ka thei, i thei mm ang.

Chutah chuan nang aia nêp/laktlak loh, nang aia hmangaihna lama vanduai (ka first love, ka nun hlimna ber ti hiala ka sawi thin chu ka hmu lai ngeiin chhingkhual valin a mutpui tawh), nang aia chhungkaw nei chhia i hmu teuh ang. Ti chuan tuna i awmdanah, chhungkaw dinhmunah lawmna tam tak i hmu ang.

A tawp nan ENGKIM TITHEI PATHIAN I NEI, TUN HI I TAN A PAWIMAWH LEH HLUT HUN A NI. AU RAWH, A BIBO TAWP LO ANG. (Naktukah hei aia sei ka rawn kawmen leh ang.)
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Asteric Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 1:50 am
@Kawlhawk….keipawh chu chu ka comment hma atanga ka suspect a nia, amah a nih rinna hi ka lo nei ru rauh rauha, mahse ka sawi chhuak duh lem lova. Harsatna khitiang case lo nei tawh chuan an rilru kan man chak ltk…..hehe…..comment tamzawk ka chhiar lem lova a reply dan aṭang ilo chhui ni ah ka ngaia ka lo tuihnih pui mai mai che
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mate ainawn Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 3:46 am
“Kan mi ngainat leh hmangaihte harsatna leh natna te hrilhnawn fo ngai”….eng atan mah min lo ti lo,innghahna tlakloh a innghah tum hi a tul lo a, kalsan la..a tha ber. Chutiang mi chu an hmuingil ngailo..
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keimah Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 3:54 am
A zual lai tanpuitu atan chuan Antidepressant a tangkai khawp. Mahse chu chu a tihdamna a ni lo. Professional Psychiatric /Spiritual counseling a mamawh ber.

ramdin777@yahoo.com ah min rawn mail la, damdawi ka lo chawh ang che.
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Aryan Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 6:17 am
nghawngkawlin buh tin thum tuktin chhek thin sela rilru hah hman lek lovin taksa kha hah sela a dam mai ang. Clinical depression hi chu ramchangkang natna a lawm. mi awm hahadam lutuk, lunggnaihna chhan tur neilo ho hian an vei nasa (&)
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H.Vangchhia Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 6:25 am
Aryan #118 avan nih duh hmel mai mai vele a hairehai LIKE LIKE (Y)
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sheldon Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 8:41 am
Tuaite, kan rawn tel ve leh lawk. Khi i thianpa chu nangmah ah an puhthlu nual a ni maw. Ka ‘thianpa’ i ti bawk a, i thianpa ang zelin sawi ang aw.

Depression leh Disorder ho reng reng hi a tak a tuartu lo chuan an hrethiam phak lo. Kan inpuang ve ang a, ka lo tuar ve hrep tawh a, mahse ka tana tha kha thianpa tan a tha ve kherlo thei na a ka rawn hriatthiamna ngawt pawh hi a tan a hlu tih ka hrechiang lutuk. Pathian zarah ka harsatna ka control chu ka ti ngam lova, ka ‘manage’ ve thei tawh e.

Psychiatrist leh Psychologist ah te ka kal, Theraphy te ka la, counselling pawh a pawimawh. Heng bah hian a zual lai chuan Anti-depressant, chutah Pathian puihna leh mahni tumruhna leh huaisenna a pawimawh khawp. Tin, kan taksa hriselna a pawimawh. Eng natna dang emaw kan neih chuan emaw, rilru hahna deuh a lo thlen chuan kan control tawh emaw kan tih pawh a rawn ‘trigger’ leh thin.

Mai mai….heting natna hi a tlanglawn lutuk tawh. A zahthlak reng reng loh. Psychiatry world hi a zau em, tih tak takah chuan tumah hi an fihlim lo tawp ang. Pawngvina, thinchhe hmingthang pawh kha psychological problem ani ngei ngei ang.

Eng natna pawh kan vei thei. Mental illness pawh natna tho a ni. Natna te i inhriatthiam sak ang u.
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littlerascal Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 8:44 am
Hmm
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Kawlri Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 9:44 am
E khai comment ava tam terhtuarh tawh ve..!

Tuaite, i thianpa chuan kan tuar zatve pawh ala tuar hleinem mawle !! Tuna a tawrhna kha nakinah malsawmna leh hlimna, hlawhtlinna thlen tur hmahruai a nih kha.. Ka lawmpui lawk e..

I thianpa khan ‘Pa’ takin khawvel hmachhawn rawh se.. Tumah hi rethei rengte, harsa reng turte in min siam hlei nem.. Kei pawh ka hmangaih hmasa ber chuan ka retheih, hmeithaifa ka nih avangin min kalsan a sin.. College kan kal laia harsatna harsatak avanga kan classmate te Ek kan paih laite khan tunah hian hlawhtlinna min pe.. TSA thianpa Pathian engkim ti theia hnenah i rilru in tawngtai fo rawh.. BEIDAWNNA BANG PHENAH HLAWHTLINNA a awm e..
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malsta27 Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 11:05 am
Khaia tuaisiala chu a la duhtawk lo ni maw .

I judgement ang thuar tham leh i thiltih dan kalphung ang atang hi chuan , chronic poh nilo eternal (a awm phei chu ka hre lo)depression nei khop tur kan tong ang chu maw le.

I thianpa i judge dan leh chhuah dan atang khi chuan min hriat chu tum ve lo mai roh, Min hlau ang
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Nghatunval Says:
November 27th, 2011 at 4:56 pm
Mi(sual) ho hi midang tan in lo inhawng zau hle mai a, tha e, Depression lam pang khi chu sawi ve lo mai ila, @53 Sheldon khi Super Like khawp mai……….ka tawmpui e.
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MaraHisbicus Says:
November 28th, 2011 at 11:01 am
Another victim of broken family a ni maw!! A khawngaih thlak hle mai. Am praying for him.
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lyze Says:
November 28th, 2011 at 1:18 pm
Aryan #118 rilru lam natna thil ania problem hrang hrang vangin a awm thei.Chutia i soi ang ngawt a awlsam chu ni mai lo ee.. I ngaihtuahna kha a mawlmang mah mah..