Kei ngei pawhin kalo sawi fo thin, “I love you han tih ngawt ai chuan, Mizo tawng ngei mai a ‘ka hmangaih che’ han tih hnâp mai hi chu alo ril bik ngei mai,” tih hi Mizo te’n kan sawi thin dan ani fo awm e.
Thumal remkhawm thiamte, ngaihtuahna ziak chhuak thiamte leh suangtuahna phawrh thiammi te hi thuthiam, lehkha ziakmi kan ti mai thin niin ka hria. Thumal han remkhawm a, thutluan (sentence) siamah pawh ril leh ngaihtuah tithui thei fal tak tura ziak thiam an awm leh zel a. Chutiang miten hriatsa an han ziah hi chuan thudang nen inchawih tak leh mawi takin an chhuah mai thin.
Chutiang deuh tho chuan zaimi/zaithiamte pawh hian an aw thatna chu an chhehrem thiam a, thinlung atanga a hlathu chenpuia an sak chuan, chu hla chuan awmzia a nei ril bikin a ngaithlatute tan pawh ngaihthlak anuam lehzualin, hmulthi te pawh a tiding er er (goosebump) thei thin a nih hi.
Kan thusawi pawh hian a hmun leh hun a zirin awmzia a nei rilin a nei rillo thei ve lehzel hi alo ni a. Thu ril taka kan ngaih, ‘ka hmangaih che’ tih tawngkam pawh hi sawi dan leh a hmun a zirin a rilin awmzia a nei zual thei hle turah ka ngai. Chutiang tho chuan, ‘i love you’ tih pawh hian awmzia alo nei ril ve viau mai tih chu MIT Slone School of Management a psychologist, Joshua Ackerman chuan a sawi.
Joshua Ackerman chuan, “Mi tuemaw in inmutpui (sex) hma a, i love you a tih chuan, rin nghal ngawt loh (skeptical) a fuh thin viau ang,” tiin a sawi. Zirnaah chuan mipa leh hmeichhia an in ngaihzawn tan hian hmeichhia aiin mipate hian ‘i love you’ tih an awlsam zawk tih hmuhchhuah ani bawk.
A sawizel naah chuan, “mi tuemawin, ‘i love you’ a tih chuan zawhbelh tur neih a tha viau maithei a ni,” a ti.
Ackerman points out that when love is expressed it subconsciously starts like a business transaction or negotiation.
The power is in the women’s corner before sex and shifts to the mans corner after.
At the start of a relationship when a man hears “I Love You” from his partner, he is pretty happy thinking they are on their way to romantic relations.
When love is spoken both men and women mean it, but its meaning can have many layers. Meanings can range from I want to work toward a commitment to I just want to just have sex.
Ackerman says we tend to talk over each other without really getting the meaning of the words.
Perhaps after hearing “I Love You” a couple of follow up questions wouldn’t be a bad idea.
NB: Mihring nunah hian a hun leh hmun hriat a, chumi hun chu hman thiam a pawimawh em em a ni.
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January 9th, 2012 at 11:24 pm
‘lab ya’ tih hi a awlsam ‘ka hmangaih che’ tih deuh duah ai chuan
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January 9th, 2012 at 11:46 pm
“Ka hmangaih che” tih tawngkam hi chu a va ril bik tak e aw. Mahse a sawitu aziarin mahnia a thawh dan erawh a danglam thei fu a ni.
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January 10th, 2012 at 1:01 am
‘I love you’ tih hi chu har vak lo, ‘Ka hmangaih che,’ tih hnap hi chu – hmangaih lem lohvah chuan har ve tak a ni
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January 10th, 2012 at 4:32 am
#53 Tawng hriat chian leh hman dan a zir ni maiin ka hria. #52 ang deuh khian
Vawiin ka hnathawk bang, CIA headquarter peng ka tlanpel, vur a rawn sur ta chem chem reuh a, rush hour anih vangin kawngpeng thlendawnah motor a muang deuh bawk nen remchangah lain video tawite ka la a…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v.....e=youtu.be
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January 10th, 2012 at 5:28 am
Min hmangaih chuan, anih leh khawi….akekeke
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January 10th, 2012 at 7:48 am
★★★★☆
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January 10th, 2012 at 8:23 am
Hmangaih loh che ten.
Post
tren tren.
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January 11th, 2012 at 12:05 am
Love tih deuh tawp ani maw, Hairehai leh
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January 11th, 2012 at 12:18 am
chhangte_ll, kan hunlai hla lar hi lo ngaithla ve rawh :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGKnSdikqjw
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January 11th, 2012 at 12:22 am
“Hey Tonight” ani dawn emaw tia
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