Mihring pangngai chuan sen lai te, naupan lai te, tleirawl/rawlthar lai te, nulat/tlangval lai te paltlangin nu leh pa niin pitar/putar ni chho zelin thih kan hmabak chu a ni mai a.
Hei hi hringnun kalphung pangngai chu a ni mai a, amaherawhchu, mihring hi kum a lo tam tak mai avanga puitling tia sawi tlak hauh loh, mi tam tak a awm theih lawi si. A dik chauh chuan changpat cheh chhum ang chauha tal ral mai mai Zofate zingah hian kan ngah em em a ni. A chhan leh avang pawh hi chhui zui tlak a awm ngei ang. A thiam leh a ngaihna hre tan chuan bengsika ngaihtuah chungin, ram leh hnam damna tura tanlak a tha hle ang.
Mithiamte chuan mihring hian zia pathum kan nei niin an sawi thin. Chungte chu- Child ego (naupang zia), Parental ego (patling zia/nutling zia) leh Adult ego (puitling zia) te an ni.1. Child ego:- Naupang zia-ah chuan nuih leh tah te, nawrh leh tihtauh te, inngaihtlawm leh thuawih te, midang mamawh tlata inhriatna leh pangchanna te, uan leh fiamthu thawh te, zai leh lam te thleng hian naupang zia a ni vek mai. Sawi tur ala awm teuh thei ang, duhtawk phawt ila. Heng naupang zia tia kan han sawite hi, a pui a pang a lian a te, a tar a zurin kan nei vek zu nia! Pitar leh putarte phei chu an naupang tha leh tia sawi an ni fo thin.
Naupang zia hi a chhe zawng emaw, a tha zawng emawa hman theih ve ve a ni. Tah leh pangchante pawh hi a tul hun leh a that riau hun a awm thei tlat zel nia! Tin, zai leh lamte pawh hi naupangte anga inngaitlawm chunga kan Pathian fakna atan a tangkai hle he he he…
Engpawh nise naupang zia hi unau karah te, thian leh thian inkarah te, nula leh tlangval inlem nan te, nupa inkarah te a lang chhuak tam ber a, kan nitin nunah hian a pawimawh em em ringawt mai a ni. Naupang zia tel lo hian ni khat pawh kan awm thei lo a ni tawp mai. Chuvangin he naupang zia hi a chhe lam dah bo ila, a tha lam chauhin hmang ila puitlin lam kan pan tihna a lo ni mai dawn zu nia.
2. Parental ego:- Patling zia-ah chuan inti-thupuifun hian a lailum a luah kan ti thei ang. Thupek a uar a, nupui fanau kilkawi nan leh rorel nan a tangkai em em a ni. Mahni inrintawknain hmun a chang lian a, mi hrawk khur khur leh vin deuh tuarh tuarh a ching a, midang engahmah ngaih bik lohna leh, mahni inngaih ropui riauna a nei fo a, mi hmuhsit leh ngaihnepte phei hi chu a tan mikhual a ni lo hrim hrim. He patling zia pawh hi naupangte atanga tar thih mai hmabak thleng hian keimahniah kan kawl far vek zu nia!
Patling zia keimahnia awm hi kan her rem dik thiam a tul a, chu chuan puitling zia-ah min hlang lut thei ang. Naupang zia ang tho khan a chhe lam paiha a tha lam tundin tur a ni. Chuti a nih loh chuan inti-puitling viau siin, kan sawngnawi ru viau lawi si ang tih a hlauhawm thei ang.
3. Adult ego:- Puitling zia hi chu sawi thui zui tul tawh lo turah ngai ila. I thawh khawm belh zawk teh ang u. Engpawh nise naupang ze tha leh patling ze tha inkawp chauh hian puitling zia a siam thei tih hria ila a tha ang e.
(a) Naupang ze tha + Patling ze tha= Puitling zia
(b) Naupang ze tha lo + Patling ze tha lo= Changpat cheh chhum anga tal ral mai mai, sawngnawi zia.
November 16th, 2011 at 5:04 pm
first mial teh ang…puitling chin chu
November 16th, 2011 at 5:10 pm
Uaai..! Comment ngaihnawm thei bawk a,1st post chu chhiar ava hahdam in ava manhla em! A lehpek kan lo chang lehnghal e. (Y)
Keichu naupang ze thalo category ah khian min dah mai rawh. 😛
November 16th, 2011 at 5:12 pm
chhiar phwt ang
November 16th, 2011 at 5:16 pm
Bengvarthlak, ngaihnawm bawk, tha bawk…huis. Puitlin a har a ni e.
November 16th, 2011 at 5:27 pm
Va tha teh thuai thuai ve boihapa. Parental ego ah khian min dah mai rawh.
November 16th, 2011 at 5:27 pm
puitling deuh khan han comment teh u
November 16th, 2011 at 5:34 pm
Puitling zia khi 40+ tawh te sawi zauah ka dah e.
Chuan nula/tlangval hun nei miah lova nu/pa hun direct a awm theih tlats.
tren tren.
November 16th, 2011 at 5:40 pm
A dik khawp mai, hetiang zawng hi chuan kum hi tehnan a hman tlak der loh. Kun naupangte pawh a puitlin theih tlat. Puitlingziaah chuan fim takin thil an ngaihtuah hmasa thin.
November 16th, 2011 at 5:41 pm
A mak ve ngawt mai. Post tupa sawi ang khian tar te pawh an naupang tha leh a. Kan damchhung zawng hian child ego hian min dominate em aw ka ti. Puitlin hi a har emai.
November 16th, 2011 at 5:45 pm
A bengvarthlak piah lamah post tha tak a ni. Keizawng child ego ah khian, ka mizia a la bet vek. Engtikah tak puitling ve ang i maw?
November 16th, 2011 at 5:49 pm
Puitling ze tha leh puitling neih hi a har ngawt mai. Pastor kum 40 ral kai tawhte pawh hi, nula/tlangval ten, “A zia hi a naupang chhe zia ngawt mai” ti a an nuih an nuih hi ka hre zeuh zeuh. Thil danglam deuh engemawin rilru a rawn thawn thut hian, Puitling leh puitling lo chu a hriat theih thin khawp mai. Second thought(rilru fim) pu thei miah lova, hmel leh tawngkam a ti langchhuak nghal buan buan mai thin te hi, “a puitling lo mang e” kan ti thin. Tin, mahni tana thalo tih hre reng chung pawh a, thil chin than(habit) tha lo sim thei miah lo(mahni sampui pawh telin,hehe) te pawh hi, Puitlin loh thlak tak a ni. boihapa nge nge post tha e. Tawk rih phawts.
November 16th, 2011 at 6:17 pm
A tha hle mai (Y) (Y)
November 16th, 2011 at 6:34 pm
boiha pa i paws tha hle tak mai. Child ego khi ka la pel hlei thei lo. Advice tha tak a ni e.(Y) Chuan #11(Y) PK ka tan e… 😉
November 16th, 2011 at 6:39 pm
In va sawi tha duh lo ve. Naupangte pawh tum(vision) sang tak leh fel(clear cut) nei a, chumi thleng ngei thei tura thi leh thau pawlh a bei a, mahni inthunun tha te hi, “a lo puitling hle mai” kan ti thin. Tin, nu leh pa leh unaute hmangaih taka dawm kang, chhawmdawl, leh enkawl tlat te hi, “mi puitling leh entawn tlak” kan ti thin bawk.
November 16th, 2011 at 7:01 pm
Khawiah chuan a post tupa chu awm daih ni maw. Zanin net a muang zual. A senior member ho net hi a muang zual aniang 😀
I post tha e. A chunga ka sawi ang khian ‘child ego’ hi kan damchhung hian kan nun atangin a bo theilo, a duhawm ber bawk. Kan puitling ve viau tawh emaw pawh ti ila kan puitlin dan hi a khingbai hu thin. Puitling nih hi a har ani e.
Hnamdang, a bikin Sap kan tihho nen chuan kan puitlin dan hi tehkhin chi pawh niin ka hrelo, an ni chu kum an tlin dek dek tawh chuan puitling rilru pu in, puitling nun in a ken mawhphurhna an ko ah an nghat ngam a. Mizo hi chu ka ti, nupui fanau nei duah tawh, puitlin tum reng reng lo, nu leh pa a innghat hi kan la tam eeee. Tiang te hi post tu in Changpat chehchhum ang a tal mai mai a tih zingah an tel ka ring.
November 16th, 2011 at 7:51 pm
kum a tam telh telh a, puitlin a har zia kan hre telh telh mai zawng a nih hi…! hei ha, hui ha.
November 16th, 2011 at 7:55 pm
15.Sheldon, zanin hì Mizoramah chuan inkhawm zan ani tlat a, boihapa lah hi inkhawm han thulh mai mai chi anih hmel loh viau mai bawk si a. A rawn lut tep tawh ang. Tin, patling pui tawh tan pawh, a vawikhatna hi chu nervous ve theih deuh mai a nia.
November 16th, 2011 at 7:56 pm
Puitling zia emaw naupang zia emaw..lung pakhata sava pahnih vawm thlakin ka rilru a luah leh ta tlat pek mai..Kei zawng ka pui tling ve thei dawn lo ania nge
November 16th, 2011 at 7:56 pm
Iau iau iau! Vawiin nileng khan ka chang rilru a, la post ve ngai lo ta nafam chu lo chan dan tur pawh hrethiam ve hek lo i.
Kan nu nau fapa piancham lawmnaah chaw kan va ei daih a, ka inkhawm hman ta lo bawk nen, ring deuh roh ring ngam chiah si loa ka awm laiin, hei a vawikhat nan a lo chhuak ve ta hluai mai a nih hi.
Sheldon, naupang zia hi tuman kan paih thei ngai lo ang, mangan tur a ni lo, a tangkai lutuk tlat. Naupang zia hi paih bo ta ila; mi kan ang zo lo hrim hrim. Nuihte hi naupang zia a ni a, a hun taka i nuih seih khan thil nasa tak a ti theih laiin, a hun loa i nuih vaih erawh chuan a pawi thui thei viau si ang.
Lamji, tunah pawh khan naupang ze tha hmangin mi i comment tlat si hi, i mi fakna hi a der a ni emaw a tak a ni emaw naupang ze tha atang lo chuan he thil hi i ti thei lo. Chu daih chu asin.
Xotea, dik lutuk. Nia, kum tam leh tlem lam a ni lo.
Vancharlova, parental ego chauh a neih theih loh tlat. Chuti ang bawkin Hugo, Ir hlonchhing, Naupang, patling leh puitling zia hi mitinin kan nei vek a, a hman dan leh a hun leh hmun hriat kan zir a tul thung.
Ts, PK, nangni han che na deuh ta che u mawle. In comment ka chhiar vek a, a ngaihnawm hlawm khawp mai. Ka chhang vek chak che u a, mahse buaithlak duh e.
November 16th, 2011 at 7:59 pm
E! Pu Pk, a post vawikhatna ani tak tak ani maw. Misual senior, post te chu ngah turah ka lo ngai asin. A comment a puitlin em vang te pawh aniang. Nilai zan inkhawm chu a rei ngai hleinem, an ban tep dawn chu.
Keipawh ka post hmasaber ka submit chiah kha chu ka nervous ve khawp mai.
Khi le! A lo lang ta (comment edited)
November 16th, 2011 at 8:02 pm
Boihapa hi Ir hlonchhing ah min chhuah der a nia le 😀 Lr hlonchhing zawk maw le 😀
November 16th, 2011 at 8:05 pm
I puitling ang u khAi
November 16th, 2011 at 8:06 pm
I.R Hlawnching. lolz :p :d (pil hman)
tren tren
November 16th, 2011 at 8:08 pm
doc_ puitling takin i hnuchhui hna kha lo thawk mawlh2 teh khai, paws danga kawmen pe zuah2 lo khan… 😀
November 16th, 2011 at 8:13 pm
Chhuakling i pil hman tlat lo. Ka pawtchhuak dawn che 😛
November 16th, 2011 at 8:24 pm
21 @lr hlonchhing, sorry! Ka tihsual palhah ngaidam ka dil nghal e. Ka tisual leh tawh ngai lo ang. Hei hi naupang zia a nih hi hehe..
November 16th, 2011 at 8:33 pm
Puitlin hi a har. Tin, mi puitling ni a kan hriat te hi kan teh dan a in ang lo nual thei bawk ang. Thenkhat tan mahni intodelh, nu leh pa buaipui ngai lo a awm thei te an ni mai thei, chutih rual in rilru lam a puitling tih kan lo nei ve thei bawk.. Tha berah chuan rilru puitling bawk, mahni intodelh bawk thei theuh ila….
Ka comment sei ber a la ni ang!! ka ziak ve duah mai, ka rilru a awm sawi thiam tak tak mang si lo in!!!.. 😛
Post tha tak a ni.. mahse Sheldon sawi ang khian Child ego hi a bo thei lo ani e…
November 16th, 2011 at 8:34 pm
Kei zawng nimin lam lalsheldy-i post atang khan ka naupang zia a chhuak tlat. Min hrethiam teh u, tunah pawh hian mittui parawl kuang khawpin ka nui chur chur reng mai. Huiis :d
tren tren
November 16th, 2011 at 8:37 pm
Misual member te hi chu nutling/patling inti viau tawh pawh ni ila keimahni ah hian ‘child ego’ bo suh se. Kan thutak run reng mai chuan misual nih a nuam nang.
tren tren
November 16th, 2011 at 8:46 pm
Chhuaklinga@28, kha zia tak kha alawm kan duh chu. A tul hunah kan mitak ang a, a tul hunah kan ho em em ang. Khi mamboihi khian a sawifiah thiam khi.
Keipawh ‘Update : Rebecca Zahau’ post a comment #13na saw kan nuihpui tak tak mai ah 😛
November 16th, 2011 at 8:49 pm
Kan taksa bung hrang hrang te pawh an than a kin vek tawh hnu a rilru leh khawsa zia duhthusam a a puitlin mawh em em chhan chu khawvel a la nih miau vangah ka puh tawp mai.
Kan ram angah phei chuan naupang dawihzep zia, dawt sawi hri, dawt hmanga mipui bum tihte a la tam dan atang hian a state ang zawng pawn naupang inkhualtelem ang lek kan ni.
November 16th, 2011 at 8:52 pm
Ekhai!! A va mak ve. Dar 9 a la ri lo. Sana ka ensual em ni? Zan dar 9 hma a an hmel kan hmuh ngai loh te pawh an rawn lan tak hi 😛
November 16th, 2011 at 8:57 pm
#32, chhungkaw sana hi herh hma vak tur online hma duh chuan!! 😛
November 16th, 2011 at 9:01 pm
27 @mamboihi, i rilru awm i sawi thiam thlawt ka ti. Tin, child ego hi Sheldon sawi ang khian misual ho hian i hmang thiam zel teh ang u. A thiam lo ber pawl niin ka inhria. Midang hi chu in ngaihtuahawm loh hlawm khawpin ka hria Jacka-pi pawh tiamin hehe…
November 16th, 2011 at 9:07 pm
boihapa@34, keipawh ka misual tirh khan ka ‘child ego’ ka hmang thiamlo. A rei ve ta deuh a, kan ‘ho’ ta tulh tulh anih hi.
Khi Saitawk pawh a ‘child ego’ a rawn hmang e. Sana ensual chungchang kan sawi ringawt a, a rawn inngaihbel leh ngawt pek khi 😛
November 16th, 2011 at 9:08 pm
Saitawk, Sheldon hian a thinlai che chu ka ti miah lo, mahse a notice riau chein ka hria hehe… 😛
November 16th, 2011 at 9:15 pm
@boihapa, sheldon chungchang ka sawi reng reng hleinem! a lo inngaihbel ringawt pek a mawle! 😀 😛 (Y)
November 16th, 2011 at 9:43 pm
Saitawk, chu tak chu a lawm eeeh, pil hman
November 16th, 2011 at 9:51 pm
boihapa & Saitawk mai mai chuh, engemaw in sawi le. In shuual lutuk 😀
Sana ensual em ni kan ti ringawt a, tu hming mah hi kan sawi lova , ‘chhungkaw sana herh hma mai’ tur te an rawn ti a 😛 ‘
November 16th, 2011 at 10:01 pm
Sheldon, kei chu in tawnah chuan tui ang ka nem duai e, bak ang chauh ka ni. Ka bak chhe len vel mai mai. I rawn lan leh ka lo tan che a, Saitawk a rawn lan leh ka lo tan leh vat a hehe… Ni e, tiraw sana chungchang chauh kha emaw i sawi ka lo tia kei pawh 😀
November 16th, 2011 at 10:03 pm
@boihapa, haha..sana chungchang chiah ka sawi 😀
Ka mut a chhuak tan tawh a nia, ka nui harh leh zo ta.
November 16th, 2011 at 10:08 pm
Naupang: A van tha bon top2 ve…hihihi
Patling: I ti tha viau e.
Puitlnnng…..:
Mi puitling nih hi ava har emm..
November 16th, 2011 at 10:20 pm
Upat chu a har lo, kum upat ang zela puitlin erawh a har.
Pa nih hi thil har anilo, Patling nih erawh a har.
Nu nih pawh hi thil har a nilo, Nutling nih erawh thil har tak ani
November 16th, 2011 at 10:42 pm
@ 43…ka like.
November 16th, 2011 at 10:51 pm
43 @dolly dollz, i va’n ti tha tan tan reuh tak. Upat chu a har lo, mahse kum upat ang zela puitlin erawh a har. Dik lutuk. I thlirna tlang hi a Mizo reihrawih ngawt mai.
Ama’rawhchu, kan ti hram teh ang, mitin mai hian naupang zia kan nei theuh a, kan thih hma chuan chu naupang zia chu a reh thei dawn si lo a, a hun leh a hmun thliar thiam takin chu naupang zia chu kan hmang thiam tur a ni zawk.
Chuti ang bawk chuan patling zia pawh hi mitinin kan neisa theuh a, naupang zia ang tho khan a hman dan thiam a tul ta zawk a ni. Entir nan naupangtr pawh Sande sikulah an hotuten tan turin an ruat a, a tihtur ava tih khan amaha patling zia a hmang tihna a lo ni ang. Tin, naupangtein a hnial pang pang che chuan amaha patling zia khan a hnial che tihna a ni.
Puitling zia erawh chu naupang ze tha leh patling ze tha infawkkhawmin a siam (form) a ni a. Amahin puitling zia a awm ngawt thei lo tihna a nih chu. Chuvang alawm mi puitling nih hi a harsat em em.
November 16th, 2011 at 11:10 pm
Heng zawng zawng hi mite min hmuh dan tur lam vek a ni a, keini lam insawina lam turah chiah a ni lo.
November 17th, 2011 at 1:31 am
la puitlin loh pawh puitling tih ang hi chu tih ve theih zel tur. source chhotu the chai wala.
humbly yours
The Fonz
November 17th, 2011 at 4:13 am
boihapa chu i ziak tha ngei mai..a free in kha (B) (^) hei lo ei la..i thla kan la bawk ang e (P)
November 17th, 2011 at 7:52 am
48 @mate ainawn, i va tilawmawm ve. A khai a! Kan nu’n nachang a hriat loh min rawn hlui zu nia! A free a nih nafam chuan tui ti takin lo ei hmiah hmiah ila a ni mai alawm. Thla min laksak dawn rau rau chuan ka chawlhni kawr ka’n ha lawk ang e hehe… 😛
November 17th, 2011 at 7:56 am
He Post hian half Century tal chu a deserved asin maw le.
November 17th, 2011 at 7:58 am
*Aduhin min hau angem aw? Deserved khi. deserve ti leh si mai ang*.
November 17th, 2011 at 10:32 am
PK, i ti lawmawm e. phu loh phu ve fotu hi ka ni ve reng reng a hehe… Nizana ‘Chhuihthangvala ar ang a vai Zawlkhaw zauah’ comment paha ka tleirawl lai hla phuah chang khat leh a thunawn chauh ka rawn tak atang pawh khan, phu loh phu tlat thin mihring ka nih zia a hriat theih ang. Kei misual hi Lalpan phu loh malsawmna min pe thin a nih hi.
Comment petu tam zawk hian kan hre fuh lo deuh emaw chu aw ka ti deuh a, Mizo pain patling kan tih ang chi zawnga ngaihtuahna hmang kan awm lek lekin ka hria. Heta puitling zia ka’n tih hi chu zia a nih ang tak hian, nungchang leh chet zia lama lang chhuak, kan nitin nunhona leh khawsakhona (relation) lam hawi a ni zawk mah mah. Luhchilh thuk peih tan phei chuan a tuiawm vei fu asin maw tak le. Tin, a post-tu ngei pawh hian a taka han hman chhuah dan ka thiam lo hlei hlei tih hi ka inhre chiang viau a ni.