Having born as a human beings we, everyone of us have gone through a lot of emotions in our lifetime. There are pain, sorrows, happiness, sadness in just everything we have gone through. Life is put this way. Work, earn for living, survive and adjust, the pain and the gain, imagination and the truth, the plan that never materialise, the fight for a cause, the thought of making it big and the rat-race for a transient happiness. The search for happiness continues.
Sandwitched between duties, survival and happiness I bet most of us, including me stay confused. Far away from families we live and struggle. The first few years are the most interesting part of anyone’s life. New place, new friends, new environment, feeling of Independence which is followed by sense of confidence and vision of great heights. It goes on and there comes a time where we are being treated as a grown ups. Yes.. our voices are heard and our opinions finds a place. Sense of responsibility pitches in and the everlasting search of happiness continues.
It is during this search for happiness that we lose the best part of our life. For us who spent our childhood in the most friendly atmosphere where we can just trust anyone the search for happiness is almost really dificult since we tend to compare just every situations of incident with our paradise Mizoram. While driving on a highway, a person met with an accident, the response here is really different from the place we are. We are different in ever sense, believe it or not. Our minds evolve differently, simple straightforward and helping nature blended with the sense of tlawmngaihna that grew inside us are the gems that we inherit from our forefathers.
The hard facts remains the same. As every other person in this world, we need to earn, forced to live our life in an unfamiliar locations. I must say it is not by choice that we leave our home. Responsibility may be the reason or may be our paradise has not been competitively advanced with the rest of the place. My question here is DOES IT MATTER? Does it matter that our paradise doesn’t have much of the BMW’s and Mercedes showroom? We are happy there, and the happiness we are searching here far from our paradise is artificial.
Do we often miss the quite night, the cold winter, the full moon night and the church bell that wake you up early in the morning and most of all the feeling of ownership? I do miss every single minute of it. That is what we have always wanted but refused to accept. Being away for 10years from home now, I started developing a strange thoughs of returning back home and start my life a fresh in my Paradise. That is the place I wanted to raise my family, the place I wanted to socialise, the place that I wanted to give something back however small it may be. It is the place that my heart beats for.
How many of us prepare Vaipaden and Bai and actually fill up a bowl to share it with your neighbour? I bet everyone of us in Mizoram has done this. How many of us have done the same thing here? Have you ever helped your neighbours who needs to finish his work or loading a truck full of cubic(stone) who inturns promise you to help clean your terrace or help you plant cabbage the next day? This is called “inlawm” in Mizoram. These are just a small example of the courtesy and a bond we share. The most important question while saying this is, Do we find happiness in doing this? For me I do.
We could have lived our short life as simple as possible. In small towns we search our happiness in small things, In big cities we search our hapiness in Mercedess and BMW’s. The ultimate outcome is still the same. Happiness. The choice is yours.
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June 6th, 2012 at 8:35 pm
First…let me read the post!!
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June 6th, 2012 at 8:36 pm
Min lo first khalh chu le
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June 6th, 2012 at 8:47 pm
#3
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June 6th, 2012 at 8:57 pm
My family and friends are my happiness hairehai
#4
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June 6th, 2012 at 8:59 pm
China thufing khan engtin nge a tih kha?
Reilote hlim i duh chuan zu in la, thla thum chhung hlim i duh chuan nupui nei la, i damchhung a hlim i duh chuan kut hna thawk rawh a ti em ni kha le? Chiang lo mai mai
tren tren
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June 6th, 2012 at 8:59 pm
…of promises which were broken, and hopes which are unfulfilled. That’s life. Truth is live a simple life, and be happy!
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June 6th, 2012 at 9:04 pm
Thil pathum sawiduh ka nei:
1) Duhtawkin ka edit chak.
2) Grammer, tense, vocabs leh word formation ah hmasawn deuh hlek ila ngai…. spelling tlemin uluk deuh bawk la
3) I thuziak theme hi a mawi hle mai, chhiar a nuama, a hahdamthlak bawk..keep it up
PS: I thusawi zawng zawng khi ka tawmpui vek ce, thinlung takin
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June 6th, 2012 at 9:21 pm
@7 Charice_mizo : Thanks Charice.. Comment ah hian lo sawisel tel.. kema ziah anih vang aniang, ka hmu mam vek..
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June 6th, 2012 at 9:25 pm
Ni khawp mai utilitarian hovin Happiness(hlimna) an teh fung a nia. khawi hmunah pawh hnam tin hian hlim dan phung kan nei vek a, heihi kan hnam anga kan hlimna thin a nia,tunlai ah hian a la ni em ki zawng2 phei chuan a hriat loh na a, kei ka hlimna a la ni reng fo mai.
Charice_mizo: nick han nih vel lai atak hi…..
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June 6th, 2012 at 9:41 pm
malsta enge awmzia
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June 6th, 2012 at 10:21 pm
Some People seek happiness for this world alone, It sometimes backfire and shortened their lives. Some People seek eternal bliss. Thought provoking Post. The Choice is Yours.
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June 6th, 2012 at 10:26 pm
Every mind must make its choice between truth and repose. It cannot have both —Ralph Waldo Emerson
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June 6th, 2012 at 10:28 pm
A concept leh substance a tha ka ti. Mahse, #7 comment khi ka ngaihdan ve chiah
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June 6th, 2012 at 11:10 pm
Hlimna thuruk chu pakhat chiah a awm: Chantawka lungawi
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June 6th, 2012 at 11:18 pm
#7 charice, keipawh i comment ‘grammer’ tih khi ka edit chak
GRAMMAR ti in 
(pil hmann)
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June 6th, 2012 at 11:19 pm
#15
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June 7th, 2012 at 12:37 am
contraceptive pills ‘choice’ hi emaw i sawi dawn ka lo tia..{nikhua lo laklawh}
Kan nu wet vangin ka meng rei ta phian a, meng mang lovin ka lo chhiar mam vek mai a sin.
Ka thlawp e.
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June 7th, 2012 at 1:12 am
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June 7th, 2012 at 1:31 am
Ka thil comment chuh,
.
No nick a thil soi hi Utalitarian hovin a hlimna an zon dan leh beh chhan a nia, a thatna chu awm mahse defect tam tak a nei fo mihring nun ho na ah. Tlawmngaihna leh Inlawm tih te hi hmanlai kan pi leh pu te’n a a hnam anga an hlimpui thin a nia tunlai ah hian a ni ta chiah lo chu a ang deuh tih ka ziah tumna……..
Charice: a awm zia chu i hriat ka ring, tunlai boruak a tu2 te’n emaw ‘in-ngaihbel’ boruak vawrh darh phet an tum lai boruak nen………hahaha
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June 7th, 2012 at 1:37 am
Ka la hrethiam ta chuanglo malsta huiz
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June 7th, 2012 at 1:45 am
Lol…Dik chiah. I hrethiam ngam tlat lova tin lawm.
. Pathian hnaih la i hrethiam mai ang. 
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June 7th, 2012 at 2:33 am
Tlar khatna thu kau khatna Having born as tih ka hrethiam lo va ka chhiar zawm tui ta meuh lo.
Charice_mizovin #7-a a sawi khi ka ngaih dàn chiah.
I hmuh mam vek chuan (keimah ang bawkin
) hma la sâwn ve fé i ngai a ni. Sâp ṭawng uanga Radio hla thlanna hmana kan hmuh tawh kha a ang lek lek, God song tih vêl kha.
Inhuat leh intai vanga sawi ka ni lo. Inzir vek kan ni a, déngkháwng leh tai nei rawng kai lova insawisèl hreh loh tùr.
Huaisenna
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June 7th, 2012 at 6:09 am
Khi tiang AWZE tawng mai mai te chu duh tawkin sawp ang hmiang, a awmzia a hriat theih chuan a tawk der(tawng te chu communication a nia). Kan hnam tawng erawh hi chu uluk hlar mai ila, ka lo ti deuh a sin. NOI
Post tha tak a ni.
tren tren
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June 7th, 2012 at 7:28 am
#11@PKfanai
Eng vangin maw i mengrei a?
#17@ saint sammoo
#23@Chhuaklinga
Chhiar nuam ka ti tho tho. GP
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June 7th, 2012 at 7:37 am
A tha e…
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June 7th, 2012 at 3:11 pm
Chhiar chhuak vek. Ziak tha khawp mai. Mahse Tlawmngaihna tak hi a bo ve tan telh2 in a lang ei zawnna lam te in ang lo ta bawk a.
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June 7th, 2012 at 3:50 pm
ziak tha hle mai…
misual.com hi tun hma khan englishin post siam kan uar a, tunlai hian mahni hnam tawng kan uar ta a, english post chhiar a khat ta a, a tha khop mai…
thenkhat comment a tawngkam dik leh grammar te hi chu ngaih poimawh vak theih poh a ni lovin ka hria…chat naah reng hindi te nen kan hmang broken thei em mai
i… 
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June 7th, 2012 at 8:50 pm
#22 Agreed !
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June 15th, 2012 at 1:28 am
grammar sap kan va tan ve aww…!!
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