USED vs LOVED

November 29th, 2009 6:00 pm by Jaspi

While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child’s hand and hit it many times not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father….. with painful eyes he asked, ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’

The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions…… sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;
the child had written ‘LOVE YOU DAD’.

Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life & remember this:Things are to be used and people are to be loved. The problem in today’s world is that people are used while things are loved. Let’s try always to keep this thought in mind:

Things are to be used, People are to be loved.
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

He thawnthu tawi te hian ka rilru a khawih hle mai a. In ngaihdan chu ka hre law……

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46 Responses to “USED vs LOVED”

  1. 1
    Kingpin Says:

    keipawh min khawih khop mai :)

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  2. 2
    mzvision Says:

    Mi khawih leh ta sawk mai aw .. keini lungdup deuh chu. hawh u misual ho hi chuan he thu zirtirna keng thra tak hi i zawm ang u

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  3. 3
    drake Says:

    a fapa ka van khawngaih :(

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    chawnghilh Says:

    It delves deep! We can see farther in the dark than in the day! LOVE YOU DAD and MOM too, even though you made my hand-reach much shorter now! :cry: The wrench was Lalsangzuali! :P

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  5. 5
    Rascal Crowe Says:

    A thiam ang tawkin naupang chuan hmangaihna a hlan chu ni si a. A mi den dan a va dang reuh ve aww chu thawnthu chu.

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  6. 6
    Taikheri Says:

    pa lerh deuh ho khan inzir nan hmang roh u

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    Pc-a Says:

    Nia,!

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  8. 8
    Jaspi Says:

    He story hi ka chhiar apiang in, ka rilru a khawih ziah mai a. Ka rilru a lo lang ber chu, kei ni Zofate zing ah hian fate chung a thinur na hrithla mai thrin hi kan tam hle in ka hria bawk. Naupang in an thiam tawk a, an hmangaihna an lan tir dan hi…….kan hriat fuh a ngai hle bawk in ka hria.

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  9. 9
    drake Says:

    @Jaspi a thra khawp mai!!!
    ka chhiar hma pawn ka hnuk a ulh thei a lawm le….kei ni emo deuh ho tan chuan :)

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  10. 10
    0695 Says:

    a Pa khi a thinchhe mah mah a nih khi a.

    car thai rang hi chu a thinrim thlak khop mai.

    kan zin naah kan car naupang in min thai rang sak a (an thai rang chhuak deuh vek, a then a langsar a then langsar vak lo); han chawi tir dawn ila an nei bawk si lo han vel em dawn ila ni bawk si lo; ka insawh ka in sawh ringot.

    zokhaw lam unuate hian rawng kah man to zia an hre lo (hrilhhriat an tha khop mai); kan len na nu pawn ti khan in hnawih zeuh zeuh ang a a ti :-)
    tuizem rawng hnawih ang ah a ngai ni berin k hria.

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  11. 11
    elcee Says:

    Thawnthu khi ka vawikhat hriatna. Rilru a khawih hle mai.

    Hmanniah ka fanu lehkha ziak thiam tan tir ka office-ah ka hruai a, dawhkana ka lehkha dahah khan a lo ziak lai ka hmu a,a pen ka laksak a, min zawt hmasa lo va ziak ngai lo tur in ka hrilh zui a. A hnu minute 5 velah a thil ziah ka va hmu chu ” Min kjærlighet (tah hian heart lem a ziak) til mamma, Fra Karen” tih kha kawi niaih in a lo ziak a, ka thinlung a tui zawih zawih. ( Ka hmangaihna (ka thinlung) ka nu tan) tihna a ni ber ang chu!

    A tawp a lines khi chu ka hriat hnu a ni a, ka ngaihtuah fo mai!

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  12. 12
    meester Says:

    A pa hi a demawm hle mai a, kawng zawh khum mai ka duh

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  13. 13
    wonderboy Says:

    Keipawi i ngaihdan ka hre bik law…. :-D

    thinchhiat ltk hi chuan a hnuah kan inchhir leh tlangpui.

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  14. 14
    H.Vangchhia Says:

    A “love you” man a to em a nih chu. Mahse, pa thin ram tak chu a ni ve thlawt e.

    Ka fanu hian a thawh hlimah, “good morning daddy, i love you daddy,” nui sang hian min tih hnu ah, ka malchunga thut paha min kuah chunga mut leh min dil thin. A chang chuan hnuk hi a ulh tep thin, a mi khawih a na duh khawp mai, naupang tawngkam chhuak hian.

    NB: Mizo tawng bakin kan belo ania, a ni pawn chuti bawkin, a zing tho hlim tawng mai a ni e. :P

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  15. 15
    bawmrang Says:

    HV chu a nupui fanau kawmna hun te hi a nei hman meuh angem aw ka lo ti a. :)

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  16. 16
    H.Vangchhia Says:

    Nei tam lo mahse awm ve zel mai

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    shailendra Says:

    ka lung an chhiat tep chu a…..

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  18. 18
    becki pa l-3 Says:

    Thil tha ka duh lutukna lamah kei pawh hi ka che chhe ve fo mai.Vawikhat chu ka fanu tlu tawp khopin kan beng mai a, zan ka mu lo reng reng. ka thinlung hi a na ngawih ngawih a, thinchhiat sim a tulzia hlir ngaihtuah in ka tlaivar zak mai a ni.

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  19. 19
    H.Vangchhia Says:

    Fate nui hmel han mitthla ringawt te hian, rilru a tihlim thei khawp asin. Ka fanu kum 4 mi hi phone ah hnathawhna atangin kan bia a, “apa hna thawk tawh suh, ka phallo che, keiman ka len hunah motor ah ka phur ang che a nu nen,” tih te hi a ching roh pek a, mi hmuh lova lawm vanga hnuk ulh teuha men puai a harlo khawp mai.

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  20. 20
    Jorky69 Says:

    T.T

    :((

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  21. 21
    grady Says:

    Psychologist-ho chuan mihring hian emotion pathum kan nei a, chungte chu love,anger and fear an ti a.

    A pa thinrimna hi a hriatthiampui awm khawp mai a, a fa in a hmangaihna a lantirna pawh a ropui a, a hnu zela an hlauhna neih khi a enkawl hautak lai chu a ni dawn a nih khi.

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  22. 22
    keimah Says:

    “Things are to be used, People are to be loved.”

    Hriat reng ka tum ang! Rilru a khawih mang e! Thanks for the post, Jaspi.

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  23. 23
    muantea Says:

    Min va zen thuk ve! Ka hriat pakhat ve chu- A fapa thil tihsual vangin a kutphahah a vua a.A kutah hian kum hnih khat liam tawhah uiin a seh tawh a,chulai tak chu a vuak sak leh si a, ui sehna chu kai tho lehin ui a seh ang chiaha awmin a thi zui ta a. A pa rilru natzia chu sawiin a siak lo. Kei pawh ka fate ka hrem chang hian zana an muhil lai hi inchhir takin ka thlir leh vawng vawng thin.

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  24. 24
    kook Says:

    Kei chu ka chhiar thiam velo.

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  25. 25
    shailendra Says:

    OT zuai teh ang… tinge zanin hi imageshack leh tinypic-ah pictures ka upload theih der loh mai awwwww…

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  26. 26
    Saitawk Says:

    Hmmm, fa leh Car ka la neilo a :) lo nei ve dawn ta mial ila hriat reng tur thil a nih hi. Car hi chu mahni inhrek viau chuan neih theih dan kawng a awm mai thei a, fa hi!
    An Ui fing tak leh a naute chu In ah a hnut chhiah a, rei thang a tumlo, a fa sen Naute leh Ui palian zet chauh bak ah ulhbun Silai chu a neihchhun te an ni deuh mai. A ram chhuak chu a rawn hawng a, naute bawm an en a, a lo awm ta hauhlo mai mangang taka kiltin kil tang a dap hnu chuan kawm thlang lamah chuan thisen tharlam tak a hmu ta a, a pan hnai a, Nausen hliam tuar leh a Ui pa hmui thi sung chung a a Pu lo lawm mei hem vat vat chu a zu hmu ta a, Naute hi Ui riltam hian a seh ngei a nih hi tih rilru pu chungin a Ulhbun chuan a Ui pa chu a chal dar ah tak a sai ta pawp mai a, lungchhe taka nausen chu hlawm pahin In lam a panpui ta a, kawng sir hnim pik phen ah chuan Chinghne hliampui tuar hi a lo thaw suk suk bawk a, a hmui ah te chuan a Ui hmul leh naute puan them te chu a la kai niai bawk a, theih tawp a chinghne koham laka a naute lo chhantu a Uipa lakah chuan khawvel awm chhungin a inthiam leh tawh lo ang (Primary kan kal laia ka zirtirtu pakhat min hrilh)

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  27. 27
    caribou Says:

    Fa te hi min tihlimtu, damchhan neia min siamtu a ni. Fa te hi rangkachak aiin an hlu zawk.

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    H.Vangchhia Says:

    Tukin khan Washington State ah police 4 an coffee in lai tu emaw in an 4 in arawn kap hlum der mai. USED but NOT LOVED not OT :P

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    elcee Says:

    USA a silai zalen lutuk hi chu a pawi a ni ber mai! Tun a he post atang ngei pawh hian ngaihtuah chiang lova thinrim lai a duh loh ang tih a awl zia a chiang em em a, thinchhe tan phei chuan thinrim tak tak a hmalam hun dawn miah lo va thinrimna te kah pawp hi a awl viau ni tur a ni. Silai neih hi khirh deuh se chuan USA tualthahna hi a let engemawzatin a tlem ang tih hi a chiang khawp mai.
    Khawvel pumpui a silai vanga thi zat statistic han en teh u! USA chu sang veu veu tak a ni…!!

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  30. 30
    H.Vangchhia Says:

    Mihring nun hlutzia hrelo hi an tam sawt ngawt asin. Hna avang lutuk tawh mai bawk si, mi thenkhat chu an hna thawhlai atangin an han ban lailawk ringawt ah te hian, an depressed hma em em mai a, hmangaihtu neilo, engmah an tan awm tawh lo emaw ti hian an in kaphlum ringawt zel. Paper etc ah chutiang chhiar tur chu a awm deuh reng mai.

    Khawvel ram kiltin atanga mihring luhkhawm na ania, ze hrang2 chu awm tur a ni bawk reng a ni. Norway ang 4,769,274 vel lek population angah chuan sual chu a tamlo hrihlo khawp ang le. Over 300,000,000 nen chuan tehkhin chi loh. NOI

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  31. 31
    zooroo Says:

    a pa hian vaw kher lovin KALLL MAI TEH!!!han t zok se cuan a inchhir lo top tur :)

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  32. 32
    elcee Says:

    HV! Norway nen ka tehkhin lo. Tin, Norway hi USA angin zalen ve se chuan e, silai vang a in that hi a let engemaw zat in a tam ang tih a chiang reng. Norway-ah chuan silai neih phalna nei ho pawh an silai hi a MU nen dah kawp an phal hlei nem. Silai bawm, a kalhna nei ngei tur, silai MU bawm, a kalhna nei ngei bawk tur, chuan room hranah dah bawk tur tih hi dan a ni. Mi thin ram te tan chuan a tha khawp ang. Mahse heng dan zawng zawng hi an zawm vek e chu ka ti ngam bik hauh lo thung :-)

    Tin, USA a i awm avangin heihi ziak ka ni lo va, USA-ah H. Vangchhia a awm tih ka hriat hma leh misual.com a awm tih ka hriat hma hian USA a silai vang a mithi tam rapthlak zia te, USA a NRA thiltihtheih zia leh len zia ka hre daih tawh. Mihring tam leh tlem lam a ni lo, a pc a lak chi a ni.
    NRA quote ” Guns don’t kill, people do”!!

    In second amendment text kha kum tamtak kal tawh a thlak daih tawh tur a ni a, tunthleng a thlak a la ni lo kha engvangnge i chhut ngai em?

    Tin, Norway theihnghilh in USA a nitin a silai vang a thi awm zat statistic kha en in khawvel ram dang zawng zawng nen han tehkhin chhin teh le :-) USA a original americans(mizoram a tanga pem ni lo :-) ) tamtak pawh in an ram silai dan khirh tak siam tur a an duh zia leh discussion tamtawh zia te i hria em?

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    H.Vangchhia Says:

    Hetah pawh an background an check vek hnu ah safety training an nei leh vek te te alawm. Amu thunsa pawn kawl an phal bik hleinem. Chutia awlsam taka lei a ni bik hauhlo ania, dan ang thlap a lei dawn chuan. Silai hi, ruih hmang etc in an leithei hleinem. Dan lova lei tur erawh atam viau ani maithei. Silai chuh hma hi nia, tam chu an tam khawp mai, police thleng hian.

    Washington, Dc ah hian silai ken chu sawi loh neih hrim2 hi khap tlat a ni thin. Misual in silai an ken fur si avangin mipui nawrna angin tunkum rei vaklo atang khan handgun (pistol) chi thenkhat chu kawltir an remti ve tan ta.

    Silai vang chuan Africa ah an thi hnem ber mai lo maw :D NOI

    Oh oh, kan mangnghilh tep chu a. Original Americans chu reservation ah an awm deuh vek, Vun var hoin zu ngawlvei ah an chhuah zo takngial dawn e. Movie pakhat a mi ang deuh khan, ” they killed them all but kept their names,” tih ang lek an ni ta, ka lainat tawp. Tichuan, a dang ho hi chu imported vek an ni e hairehai :D

    They were USED but NOT LOVED! cartoon kan en lawk teh ang, I’ll Be Back :)

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    VaiVa Says:

    He post chuan lairil a dek mang e awww! Zing lamah kan chhiar nawn leh hram chu a. Hmangaihna kan lantir thiam dan leh a chhanna kan hmuh hi a in mil lo fo. Pathian hmangaihna chauh lo chu! :-)

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    grady Says:

    Nia, he post hi hmangaihna hnathawh lan chhuah dan in hamtawnglo chanchin a nih hmel. Ngaihtuahna a ti thui khawp mai.

    A pa chu thinrim thut lo se chuan a fa thuziak LOVE YOU DAD tih hi a car sticker atan a hmang duh hial zawk ang.

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  36. 36
    Jaspi Says:

    ’Dad when will my fingers grow back?’ tih tak hian ka hnuk a ti ulh fo. Kum 4 naupang ngaihtuah na atang a han chhut hian, a van ni dawn tak em? ka ti leh ngawt thin..

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  37. 37
    H.Vangchhia Says:

    Jaspi, i rawn thur chhuah lai tak khi alawm…

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  38. 38
    elcee Says:

    Breaking news!

    Vawiin khan Switzerland (west :-) )sorkar chuan minarets khapna (ban) dan an siam thar!

    An huai kher mai! switzerland-ah hian muslim 400,000 vel an awm. Swiss muslim kher lo, khawvel pum muslim an thinrim teh ang chu..!!

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  39. 39
    H.Vangchhia Says:

    elcee, Minarets a khap i tih hian, mosque/an tower ang chi kha siam a khap tihna nge aw. Ram neutral ber te zing ami Switzerland chu Muslim hitlist ah an insiam ange :D

    An au ring thei em alawm :D

    Ka hmu leh si e. thanks anywy
    https://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/.....index.html

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  40. 40
    H.Vangchhia Says:

    He post hi ka chhiar nawn leh thin, mi khawih riau nia mawle. Mahni ah kan in chan thin lehnghal a… :(

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  41. 41
    badboy Says:

    tah kan tum uk a ka tap leh ta lo mai

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  42. 42
    As_Khiangte Says:

    Rilru a khawi hle tak mai :(

    thinrim thut ah hian kut lek nghal mai hi a awl riau a, insum theih tak chu a ni tho.

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  43. 43
    Pc-a Says:

    @Jaspi, kan inhnit deuh ringawt chu a.

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  44. 44
    drake Says:

    kannu ka chhiar tir a, ka trap ati!!!

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    mr.hyde Says:

    it’s all about the communication gap, one does it on the emotion felt for the other using the the object adored and valued.
    the other fails to connect and reacts on sole instinctive emotion devoid of forethought and objectivity.
    It’s a touching story….. ka ngaihtuahna a ti thui khawp mai!

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  46. 46
    Turu^lo Says:

    Ka save nghal e!

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