Phairama awm mek i fate i hrechiang em?

October 21st, 2006 6:38 pm by G-Wiz

I just came across this article at Ralvengtu.com aptly titled “Phairama awm mek i fate i hrechiang em?” which someone had pointed me to, on whether parents in Mizoram actually know what their kids do when they’re away from home. I’d say this is more of a universal concern than just Mizo-centric.

Good read. Judiciously written, except for a few easily identifiable examples. My first thought was “What is this guys problem? Live and let live.” It’s just that his concern over the reputation that few isolated incidents, good or bad, can create, is something I’m sure some of us would identify with. Then again, I say, live and let live. Mind your own business if the person you’re dying to lambaste is an adult. Now I also wouldn’t mind being a Negro, for obvious reasons except the color…

Read it at https://www.ralvengtu.com/content.asp?contentid=2660

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41 Responses to “Phairama awm mek i fate i hrechiang em?”

  1. 1
    myself Says:

    i know you would not mind this kind of article unless you are also the same useless, fickle head ..who dont do their reason for staying in other state ……..
    why do your family send you to other place …is it their intention to give you the experience of drinking beer in pub or dance ..i dont think so…
    this article talk about someone who are depending on the money drip from their parent ..but who dont do their duty…
    it dont mention someone who earn their bread and enjoy life/….
    so if you feel offended…then look at yourself then you’ll find what a person you are and how people see you…….
    most of us might deny..but its a fact…i also come across this kind of things…even a high school hosteller……who is hardly 16 years old….
    you may be able to fool your parent….but you can not fool others….
    SHIT…..i wonder why some one need to write this kind of article , all behave like a good samaritan in mizoram …it is really sad……

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    gingerbluff Says:

    i really like this topic…why in the world people always think that a person is doing wat he is doin just bcoz he/she is away from parents,i certainly dont think it works that way.If a person want to go wild or crazy he/she can do it newhere and at any point of time.If a person is in his/her hometown his parents cannot keep a watch over him all the time,he’s free to do wateve he likes so its totally his own freewill that is impt and make him to the things that he did..So lets take it this way all the boys and girls who is outside Mizoram 4 further studies or carrer..who dont want to attend classes,who involved in sex or drugs or many other things were all sent back home i think they will still be the same person bcoz we cant change their mentality n we cannot control their freewill.They will still indulge in those things in either way.

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    G-Wiz Says:

    Rightly said. I wonder if it’s possible to file a lawsuit in India seeking redressal against racial/community discrimination. Anyone have a clue?

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    myself Says:

    how many gals would have the same space at home and some where else outside the purview of their parent…..
    may be they have the same mentality …but parent are there so they are under supervision…
    i can not say all…but maximum of our brethen are a failure becoz of this things…….
    i know a number of MIZO gals who kiss a stranger in a club , just becoz they just want to have experience ……….
    BULL SHIT………

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    lovingangel Says:

    well…if we are adults,we should be treated as one and make our own mistakes…..and learn from them…just because they are under supervision vack home doesnt mean they wont do things on the sly…they are just more open when they are away from prying eyes…and they learn more…what do u think guys???

    hetiang a lo sawi leh ziah vel hi a ninom tawh khawp mai.

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    marie Says:

    phairama omlo drugs addict leh aizawla ks nula ho khi nih leh tinge a chhan an nu leh pate bula an om vang ami le ?????????hahaaa

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    myself Says:

    a very good article indeed……………aizawl a kS leh phairam a awm zirlaite tehkhin em em chu maw le?..do they behave like KS in mizoram when they are in other state!!!!!!!!!! woaaaaaaahhh…..

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    J Says:

    Article ziaktu hi aizawl.com hun lai atanga mi ril leh ngaihtuahna hmang nasa Epistology kha ania, a thu ziak reng reng hi belhchian a dawl thin khawp mai. Hetah a rawn tarlan tam tak pawh hi thu dik, dawt ni miah lo anih ka ring. Ka thawhpui leh thiante nen a kan sawi fo thin Mizo te hian morals leh principles hi kan nei chau ve em a, phai ram a han feh chhuah nikhua leh han khawsak deuh vang vang hian heng kan tlakchhamna te hi a rawn irhchhuak leh fo reng thin. A pawi khawp mai.

    Chutih rual chuan thil reng reng hian lehlam a nei vek a, thalai te’n in ngaihtuah thlen phak ngai a ka rin loh ka lo hrilhru lawk ang che u. Chu chu in nu leh pa te hi mi fel famkim leh sawisel bo an ni bik lo tih hi ani. An hunlai a lo che ho ve fe fe in rin aiin an tam ang, phailama an zirlai/khawsak ve lai ngat phei chuan. Amaherawhchu an tih dikloh ang ang a rawn ti dik lo turin an duh che u tihna ni lo in, tih nachang an lo hriat thin loh leh an lo tih sual thin hniakhnung in rawn chhui loh nan in lakah beiseina an nei sang hle ani. Heck, your parents were young once. They understand a lot more of your problems than you’d ever think, trust me.

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    superstarring Says:

    Hmmm, ziak tha dup dup khop mai. Ka chhiar laia ka rilru ron lut hmasa chu ‘Mi tha lo om nn a va tong thei chat2 ve’ tih hi. Chuan, nia G-Wiz thusoi hi ka pom zong tak a ni bok..chutia mi class kal tha lo awm avang a chutia lo tih. Tin, an rual hian an mahni aia tam vai class kal tha lo poh an om treuh ka ring. Class kal tha lo chu Mizoramah poh kal se an attendance a tla polah tho an tang ang….Mizoram college ah poh attendance ah an tlak ruih2 hi.

    Vawikhat chu, phairama nula pakhat chu hnamdang ah pawh Midum, Mizo ten Negro kan tih ang nen hian an cheng dun tlat mai a. Mizo khawtlang pawl mit a kham ta deuh a, zilh an duh ta hial a, mahse a laichin hnai tak pakhat chuan, ‘ti duh suh u…a nu leh pa’ pawh hian an hre vek, pawi an ti lo, an pawmpui thlap a ni e’ zuk ti mauh a. Kan tawng sang viau tawh a ni.

    E nge maw kan han tawn san phah na viau chu ni aw? Nu leh te hriat lohva Mizo leh Mizo livein ai chuan hei hi a tha zok lo maw? in, e nge an bulami te ho poh chuan lo zilh an duh ve rikngot? An inhmangaihna an hmuh hi an thik a mi (a ruk takin)?

    Mizo nula hnamdang kawp kan ngaihtheih loh em em lai hian, Mizo tlangval zu rui au pawr fe fe, buaina siamfo te hian hnam an ti mualpho ve tho em? Mizo nula thenkhat zilh rual hian, zilh ve tho tur an ni lo maw?

    Dik chiah…heng ho hi an ruih mai2 vangin kan mit a kham lova, chuan Mizo hming an ti chhe lo bawk tih na mi? Heng zok te hi ni lo maw min ti mualpho tu?

    Phairam hmun thenkhat a, Mizo nula awmmawh deuh thenkhatte Mizo khawtlang pawlin an thawn haw tak te pawh hi, thlahnih khat hnu lawkah an lo let leh a, an nu leh pa ten, khawtlang pawl rawn khing letin, ‘ka fanu hi an duh duhin lo khawsa rawh se, kan hriat pui e..nangni thu a ni lo’ an rawn ti let zek tih te thlenga awi a ni.

    Ni reng a sin, kan pongpaw chet vak thin. Ka la hriat reng chu (he thu hi khang hun laia Mizo awm ve, amah chu hruaitu lam hial a ni) Shillong lama hmeichhe pakhat party naah a lo rui sual deuh a, a sam an mehkolh sak. Ka ngaihtuah poh hian ka thin a la rim. They have no rights, duh leh a nu ten mehkolh sak roh se….

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    gingerbluff Says:

    “but parent are there so they are under supervision…”
    No parents can supervise their kids all the time.
    “i know a number of MIZO gals who kiss a stranger in a club , just becoz they just want to have experience”
    These Mizo gals will still do the same thing 4 experience even if they are at Mizoram.Its just that there is a possibility that the guys they make out with will be from our own tribe or maybe some vai mistiri or offficer or wateva he…he…

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  11. 11
    G-Wiz Says:

    vai mistiri … ber kher … :D

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  12. 12
    ammi Says:

    pi j sawi angin kan nu leh pa hi mi fel famkim an ni bik lo…mahse ti teh ang nu leh pa tamtak mahni fate college kalna hming leh address hre mumal lo kan tam ta lutuk hi a pawi…hei hi chu a lutuk deuh…chhiatni thatni ah mizo welfare hruaitute tan a luhai thlak duh lutuk….lu ti hai tawk leh sawi kai tawk hi chu an awm ngei ngeia khawi hmun ah pawh ka hmu hnem tawh lutuk a..a tih ngaihna tak pawh a om lo…va hau in va zilh dawn ringot ila…mi personal life ah va in rawlh thil tih chi a ni lem si lo…tih ngaihna tak pawh a om lo..keichu eng hnam pawh hi ngaizawng rawh se..pawi ka ti hran lem lo…mahse hnam tlemte kan ni a mizo hmingthatna leh mualpho na hi ka kut ah a in nghat tih hi mi pangngai tan rilru a vawn reng a pawimawh in ka hria……thil nuihzathlak deuh chu 97 kum khan b’lore tang hian mi pakhat a chhungte an rawn ngen vangin kan hruaituten an thawn haw a b’lore central raiway station tangin …east station ah a chhuk leh deih lolzzz a haw loh hmel mai mai a sin.

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    battlestar Says:

    hehehhe keichu vei tur chin an awm a,vei ngailo pawh an awm ka ti.Mizoram ang tho hian phaia Mizo te zingah pawh a fel an awm a,a sual an awm.Chuvang chuan a fel hian a sual lam hi hneh tum se animaiii

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    BlackWhite Says:

    Vawikhat chu, phairama nula pakhat chu hnamdang ah pawh Midum, Mizo ten Negro kan tih ang nen hian an cheng dun tlat mai a. Mizo khawtlang pawl mit a kham ta deuh a, zilh an duh ta hial a, mahse a laichin hnai tak pakhat chuan, ‘ti duh suh u…a nu leh pa’ pawh hian an hre vek, pawi an ti lo, an pawmpui thlap a ni e’ zuk ti mauh a. Kan tawng sang viau tawh a ni.

    Speaks a lot about this person’s state of mind. No personal offence meant and he maybe elder than me etc etc, but i’ll still call him a Narrow-minded idiot!

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    BlackWhite Says:

    BTW, I’ll also add “intolerant”!

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    J Says:

    pi ammi, i pi tur em chu ka la ni lo deuh. I’m not that much older than you

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    virgochhas Says:

    sala…ka sawi ve ang…

    aizawl a lehkha xir kan thriante awm dan hi a nawm hmel ka ti…

    class 11 & 12 ah kan hun lai khan ‘special hindi’ kan tih mai thrin a lut ho te kha…an tlan bo nasa thei bon…vacation a kan haw apiangin min hrilh alawm…’a nuam bon’ an ti…vai ram ah chuan 11 & 12 ah school tlan bo an awm mang ka hre lo tlat….

    college ve thung…attendence chhe lutuk an tam chiang bon…class an bunk a, lui ah an kal a, an in picnic a…nawm hmel…vai ram ah chuan a tih ve theih miah loh…college pakhat ah an prom night ah ka kal ve a, zu rui kha maximum, a bak ah weed rim a nam rum rum bawk…

    a dang leh ah beat contest ah ka kal ve a….same scene….

    sual tur chu khawi ah pawh an sual tho ka ring….

    K.S maw…?….vai ram ah maw?….Delhi ah maw…?…Aizawl ah pawh an tammm mai….

    keipawh tun kum tir lam khan, kan nau te admission ka tihpui ve a…’mizo chu an thiamthei’ an lo tia…an lo admit chak khop asin…

    in luah dun tawk an awm tih kan hre vek…ixol ah pawh, a mu dun duh chuan an mut dun an thrulh chuanglo tih kan hre vek tho…

    vai ram a ni emaw, mizoram a ni emaw…a awm dan diklo deuhte hi kan sawi nasa zual deuh lo maw…a fel te hi kan fak tlem si…..fak hnem ila, a awm thra duhlo te hian luhlul chhuah aiin fel tak a awm ve an chak phah zawk lawng maw…….te ka tia….

    *chu chu ni mai, uih ve siah* :P

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    gingerbluff Says:

    Uiha!Virgochhas soi dik thuai2 e mai Helleluiah pek thuai mai ka duh kei zawng..hoo.hoo..nuam e!a hrehawm

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    Goldmember Says:

    Now I also wouldn’t mind being a Negro, for obvious reasons except the color…

    you dont like blacks? or just dont like bein black skinned? use of the word Negro is also generally frowned upon nowadays – thats a very racially sensitive comment you just made; either that or i’ve misunderstood what you said

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    superstarring Says:

    Dik ve leh chiah mai

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    myself Says:

    buaithlak ani e…..unless there is some morality …..no one can act as a self styled-counscience keeper…
    ti lovin tih an chak a, ti tawh in tih leh an chak a…hei ber mai hi buaithlak ta chu….lolzzzzzzzzzzzz

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    G-Wiz Says:

    :D dik reng… affirmative action on positive things hi negative reaction on negative things ai chuan a thawk fuh zawk hrim² …. What happens if I tell you “Don’t think about a black man.” ? Subliminal messages hi inpek a awl em a. Kohhran leh zirlai hruaitu te hian an tih dik loh an hre thiam thei thlaaawt lo. Let people make up their own minds instead of putting thoughts in their head.

    That said… don’t think that G-Wiz is a hunk…

    :D

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    G-Wiz Says:

    e… min lo post khalh… its not that I mind black skin, but if you call something what it is by its right name, does it make it wrong. If I call you Asian in a multicultural setting, is that wrong ? Some people take offence at nothing at all. Everyone of us is a racist, the only difference is the degree to which we are biased.

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    Goldmember Says:

    okay try calling a black a NEGRO in whatever setting and see if ppl dont give you strange looks besides the word ASIAN is not at all a racial slur!! but the word NEGRO definitely is… im not offended at all.. but i might have been so if i were black..

    its not “nothing at all” uve clearly said you would love being a “negro” except that you dont like the “black skin” now isnt that some form of discrimination on ure part?
    anyway forget it.. i prolly dotn understand the context of your post

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    SiLent_Man Says:

    Arrrgggggggggghhh… rilru in ti hah hlawm e a. Ngatinge thil tih chakawm deuh hi ‘thalo’ leh ‘kohhran/khawtlang duh loh zawng’ a nih deuh vek. Han ngaihtuah mah teh u… hahchhiau (sneezing) bak hi chu in hre mang lovang.

    Tin KS tih vel te hi chu socialist govt nei ila a reh vek mai ang… free for all mo…

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    virgochhas Says:

    G-Wiz….r u…?

    i mean….r u a hunk…?

    :)

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  27. 27
    G-Wiz Says:

    u know me.
    :D

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    G-Wiz Says:

    :D

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    virgochhas Says:

    wat….?…..

    so r u a hunk….?

    :)

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    superstarring Says:

    SiLent_Man wrote:

    Han ngaihtuah mah teh u… hahchhiau (sneezing) bak hi chu in hre mang lovang.

    Hahahaha…ka duh lutuk tlat :D:D

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    G-Wiz Says:

    actually no… but i was just trying to point out what the power of suggestion could do. :)

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    G-Wiz Says:

    o u got me good. my mistake, african was the word i was looking for.

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    Goldmember Says:

    hey man thanks for seeing my point of view; no sweat;

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    G-Wiz Says:

    I wish I was a black … with more inches … not that I’m not happy with what I have … Just that I feel I could use more :)

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    Goldmember Says:

    im assuming u mean horizontally and not vertically.. always works with the ladies.. bwahahahhhah

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    G-Wiz Says:

    works with the ladies .. both ways … I go green when I see these nigerian football players with 1 dozen asian babes dangling from their waists. :D … can’t be the voice, can’t be the looks … no way … awke , mebbe some of them, but not all… wat does a girl do with a guys football skills????? …. if he were beckham, use his ability to swing his balls in through the backdoor :D

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    J Says:

    Will you two dickheads kindly raise the level of your confab? You’re turning the air in here a mottled shade of blue :O

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  38. 38
    G-Wiz Says:

    Awkeh… My fault. Sorry if the confab went so below the belt. delete the wicked ones as appropriate.

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    Goldmember Says:

    do you want us to raise anything else apart from our ‘confab’??

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    J Says:

    Mine not to delete, mine but to read and gawp, alas.

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    Anonymous Says:

    article tra tak ani!!!phai kan awm rei vang mai hian nun a khawlo tih na a ni chuang lo! mi business a kan buai thin hi chu a buaithlak zawk ani…..a bik in mizoram lam unau te in en fiah a hun ta hle!!!

    ami

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