“But everytime I’m close to you there’s too much I can’t say and you just walk away and I forgot to tell you I love you and the night’s too long and cold here without you, I grieve in my condition for I cannot find the words to say I need you…”
I was listening to this song, I Love You by Sarah McLachlan when I questioned myself if it’s really necessary to say “I love you”. Do we really need to hear or say these words? Will it be enough for you to hang on to your relationship just because you’ve said it or someone said it to you? Would you like to be the first to say it or rather wait for the other person to say it to you? What do you expect from the person you say these words to? Would you walk away just because they didn’t say I love you or are you too scared to tell the truth, scared that they’d would walk away if they know how much you love them?
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April 5th, 2010 at 11:05 am
2nd para khi aril tak tak na chu…
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April 5th, 2010 at 11:36 am
hmangaihna lampangah hi chuan i lo luangliam ve hle nimo gail
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April 5th, 2010 at 11:48 am
a 4th nan ka lo 4get ve a gne….
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April 5th, 2010 at 12:15 pm
most probably: “you too scared to tell the truth, scared that they’d would walk away if they know how much you love them?”.
As Fonz says: Kya hain pyaar, baby don’t hurt me no more…Kya hain pyaaarrrr
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April 5th, 2010 at 12:16 pm
Gail chu Mizo tawngin post ve tawh la
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April 5th, 2010 at 12:33 pm
tha hle mai…
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April 5th, 2010 at 2:11 pm
Ril ngawih ngawih hle mai. :lol: :smile
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April 5th, 2010 at 3:01 pm
“Do we really need to hear or say these words?Will it be enough for you to hang on to your relationship just because you’ve said it or someone said it to you?”. Lets say, for the sake of argument , that it is real love that we’re talking about, if there’s such a thing (not pyar or ishq or mohabhat :lol: ). Then I believe we don’t really HAVE to say or expect our feelings to be voiced every now and then. But then again, I know it won’t hurt a bit to be told I’m loved. And if we’re hanging on to a relationship just because we’ve said ‘it’, then its probably time to see a counsellor.
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April 5th, 2010 at 3:11 pm
I love you = ka ngaina che
I love you from the bottom of my heart= ka hmangaih che 
I love you with all my heart= ka hmangaih che asin 
hairehai… a nih duh hmel ka ti mai mai, punctuation ngaihsak vak lo in NOI
Lam dan: I love you = i lo ve iau
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April 5th, 2010 at 3:41 pm
chhiar nuam dap2 hle mai……hmangaihna hi mitin mamawh a ni a…..min hmangaih thu hi chu min hrilh ngei se chu kan duh tlang theuh chuan ka hria…chuan chet tlai ltk hi channa a ni thei……chuvang chuan duh rau2 chuan bawhchilh vat mai tur inchhir leh ai chuan…
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April 5th, 2010 at 3:49 pm
chikus, i bawh na lutuk ang e, dim deuh khan aw
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April 5th, 2010 at 6:48 pm
I luangliam hi ka dem lo che!
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April 5th, 2010 at 7:08 pm
Really? Tell me now!
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April 6th, 2010 at 1:13 am
i love you tih aichuan k hmangaih che tih hian a soi kim joka hriatna hi k neia, chuvang chuan he post poh hi sap tawng ngatin k jiakta mai ani..mizo tawnga k ziah don chuan hmangaihna hi ziahdan tur k hrelo, k ziah pon a thui viau k ring.. in hne palh ang. tihian sap tong hian a bor vel soi ila a tok viau lo mo.. zualbonez???
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April 6th, 2010 at 11:40 am
gail chu i lung a leng teh zawng a nih hi maw! Ka khawngaih hle mai che kan ti ngawt teh ang. Ahma ami aia tha a lo la kal leh mai ang, lungngai duh suh! I hmel pawh a chhiat vak ka ring lou!!
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April 6th, 2010 at 11:51 am
@rotekawlasepa, min dem loh hram k beisei Maisek pon min dem loh hi:-) Its better to have loved and lost rather than not to have loved at all an tih kha…
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April 6th, 2010 at 11:53 am
gail…And with love, there are no rules. Some may try to control their emotions and develop strategies for their behavior; others may turn to reading books of advice from ‘experts’ of relationships or advice from closed ones or yet still learning from past relationships-but this is all folly. The heart decides, and what it decides is all that really matters.
All of us had this experience. At some point, we have each said through our tears, “I’m suffering for a love that’s not worth it.” We suffer because we feel we are giving more than we receive. We suffer because our love is going unrecognized. We suffer because we are unable to impose our own rules.
But ultimately there are no good reason for our suffering, for in every love lies the seed of our growth. The more we love, the closer we move to spiritual experience. Those who are truly enlightened, those whose souls are illuminated by love, have been able to overcome all of the inhibitions and preconceptions of their era. They have been able to sing, to laugh, and to pray out loud; they have danced and shared ‘the madness of saintliness’. They have been joyful-because those who love conquer the world and have no fear of loss. True love is an act of total surrender.
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April 6th, 2010 at 12:02 pm
Hmangaihna a tel ve tawh hi chuan thinrim taka sakei ang maia an awm loh laia Grrr thin kha, an rawn lan meuh chuan zawhte ang maiin zawi tein Meow kan ti ngam tawk e an tia lawm
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April 6th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
@gail: Dem teh nang che aw. But remember- ‘Love is not Blind, but Lovers are Blind’.
Love is love, it cannot go wrong, its the lovers who think and do the wrong things!!
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April 6th, 2010 at 12:22 pm
gail….mizo tawnga k ziah don chuan hmangaihna hi ziahdan tur k hrelo, k ziah pon a thui viau k ring.. in hne palh ang. tihian sap tong hian a bor vel soi ila a tok viau lo mo.. zualbonez???
…dik lutuk
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April 6th, 2010 at 12:40 pm
#14, a dik, mizo dik tak i ni e, Mizo tan chuan Ka hmangaih che tih hi thil sawi har lutuk, mi pahnih inkar atana engkim a engkim ah kan ngai deuh thaw. Mahse tunlai thangtar te hi chuan an sawi molh molh tawh mai. Mak thei khawp mai
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April 6th, 2010 at 2:48 pm
When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.
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April 6th, 2010 at 7:51 pm
@ 22 gail… if only every gal were like you, sigh!
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April 6th, 2010 at 10:20 pm
@zualbonez, Felix Adler, an American educator and founder of the Ethical Movement, 1851-1933 once quoted “The unique personality which is the real life in me, I can not gain unless I search for the real life, the spiritual quality, in others. I am myself spiritually dead unless I reach out to the fine quality dormant in others. For it is only with the god enthroned in the innermost shrine of the other, that the god hidden in me, will consent to appear.”
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April 7th, 2010 at 2:31 am
@ gail…u r so right…but we do so draw our strength and inspiration from the other and once betrayed we go completely empty
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April 7th, 2010 at 2:53 am
i hate betrayal.. and i hate being lied to, and once you know they’ve lied to you, knowing the truth makes everything else look like a lie!!!
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April 7th, 2010 at 3:27 am
betrayl is the root of arrival
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